Triggers
Triggers. Does the word itself make you feel uncomfortable?
A trigger is a sensory reminder of an unpleasant event that affects your emotional state.
You may find yourself getting triggered by a smell, by a touch, by something you read, something you see, hear…
By a beautiful woman, by a successful person, or by an intelligent one – just some examples.
This happens a lot, especially among women, they often trigger each other.
Now that you got familiar with the word (are you still reading?), let’s discuss the root cause of triggers.
Why is this happening to you? Because deep down, conscious or not, you desire the thing you see in others that bothers you. Which makes you “realize” you don’t have it, and this is nothing but a belief you fed yourself with for a long time. You repeated this statement to yourself every time you encountered your wish fulfilled in others and got carried away by the negative emotional state produced.
When this happens, allow your triggers to surface and OBSERVE them.
Then, ask yourself: Why do I feel triggered by X situation? What part of me doesn’t accept that I can have it or become it? And give yourself an honest response.
By doing this you can switch your perspective and think instead that – you don’t have it, or you are not it YET! Which puts you in the state of – I could have it too if I want it bad enough. I can become it too if I want to.
Make these statements your new affirmations when it comes to triggers.
This allows removing your triggers.
I always compliment a beautiful, successful, intelligent woman when I see one. Genuinely. I always did and always will.
Be happy when you meet people better than you, you get to learn new things from them that can help you further.
This is what having a growth mindset looks like. This is how alpha females act and react.
This is a fact that gets intimidating for those that don’t accept their triggers, people without a growth mindset foundation. And it’s ok.
I covered the meaning of that short video, where I say:
Allow your triggers to surface, to be able to dismiss them. You can’t find the solution to a problem that you don’t accept yet.
Well, I have to admit I repeated the word TRIGGER a lot. LOL. Nothing is random on this page. Even though I’m writing in flow.
How does it feel now hearing it after knowing all this info?
This is what working with me will be like, I will challenge you to invite change in your life, to invite better things. To go after what you want. I will give you the tools while you’ll create the rules!
People that worked with me so far experienced anxiety relief, feeling more confident, improved relationships, improved self-esteem… from the very first sessions. But you can go see for yourself the feedback in the private group and on the website.
Most people I connect with daily, lots of them, say they love my energy, after changing just a few words.
Do you know why? Because I love what I do and I’m real about it. I believe and know I can produce positive change in people’s lives! I’ve done it so many times. And this statement is backed up by the positive feedback I receive continuously.
I am 100% involved and results-oriented when I’m coaching someone. Doing the same when I collaborate with other businesses (see the business services I offer if interested).
If you want to become a woman:
That knows what type of relationship she deserves and how to attract it
Who is confident and sets rules and boundaries for herself
Who knows how to heal faster
Accept and transform triggers, and much more…
Let’s start this journey together.
Is going to be a full transformational month with practical coaching which requires 100% commitment to shift your mindset, to become who you truly want on all levels.
It’s a win-win situation where we both give our 100%. I offer you an amazingly practical and transformational journey, while you offer your commitment on all levels to make it happen.
Are you in?
If you prefer short-term sessions, email coaching is for you.
I encourage you to use your intuition and choose whatever feels best for you.
