You may have the tendency to form attachments to material things, people in your life, or situations.

Attachment to material things is formed when you need to feel secure, safe… and by having those material things your emotional need is fulfilled (at least you think so) – this is your primary assumption in this situation. Operating from this assumption leads to increased ownership sense, which leads further to a fake “happy” emotion provided only when you own those material things. To go even further, a strong material attachment leads to a fixed mindset (no growth here), to a life without real meaning, where what you have equals who you are.

Let’s not confuse being attached to enjoying material things. Two separate things! It’s totally fine to have material things in life that you enjoy. It’s totally fine to enjoy having money (let’s be serious, of course is fine!). As long as you don’t create attachments – an attachment grows in layers, let’s say S,M,L. The more you feed it, the more it grows.

Attachment to people, well this one has many more layers (up to 4XL lol ). You can find yourself attached to a family member, to a partner, to a friend. Your assumption here is that without them you can’t do anything, literally. In this case, you need constant help, attention, advice,  a push forward.

This type of attachment is created when you experience low self-esteem. This type of attachment leads to unfulfilled connections, relationships, and again a fixed mindset. The emotion experienced in this case is fear. Fear of failure. And here can also appear that increased ownership sense.

It takes self-work to realize you don’t own anything and anyone, but YOURSELF.

Again, let’s not confuse attachment to specific people with enjoying having them in our life…

Attachment to situations is anything in between the first two.

How do you detach?

You create new assumptions that lead in this direction. You DECIDE to change and practice it!

This is where the manifestation process comes into play. You become aware of your thoughts and replace them with what you actually want.

New statement (affirmation) – mental diet (thoughts awareness) – Imply emotions – Repeat.

This is how you create a new assumption that eventually will reflect a new YOU.

By changing assumptions you create a new belief system that influences your mindset, and eventually your actions and reactions. Your desired life!

And your desired life, where you have meaningful connections, and relationships, where you’re fully confident when you want something, where you set rules and boundaries, starts with YOUR decision to change.

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