Why do people get married in our days? Why so many breakups?

Many people get into relationships or get married, driven by different beliefs.

The most common reasons are: 

Money & status.

Pushed by family and/or friends because “it’s time”.

Fear of loneliness.

True love.

The percentage of people starting a relationship, or getting married out of true love is small, unfortunately. This is exactly why the divorce rate and breakups are increasing.

It’s much easier to jump into a relationship hoping it will be fine than to take the time to work on yourself and figure out what you really want and how you want it. Of course, living a bit of room for the unknown. This is what I call the comfort zone, which eventually is not at all.

When you choose a relationship based on the first 3 reasons get ready to be unhappy, it will not fill your soul’s needs, not in the long term. 

In spiritual terms, you’ll not be aligned with your soul purpose.

We meet new people to have new experiences. We get in relationships (or get married) for the same reason. All is experience. Experience leads to growth, to transformation.

How do you want your experience to be? 

Based on evolution and growth, which will bring forward your other material desires and not only? Or based on stagnation? 

Which will create blockages on many levels.

Blockages at a soul level will manifest in your body too, in many forms.

Led by the above beliefs, you can find yourself chasing your ideal partner for a lifetime. Thinking is wrong not to be in a relationship or married.

You are not here to chase love, or just to be in a relationship, get married, have kids… 

You are here to discover, first, Who You are beyond what labels and beliefs others gave you.

And who you are is what brings you joy, that you can share with others.

Who you are is what brings your ideal partner. Naturally.

Love is a natural process, let it happen naturally. You will know when it happens.

Switch the priority order and watch what happens. 

Start working on yourself, on your beliefs, on what you want to do, and allow relationships to simply happen. Don’t force the process.

Marriage should happen only after you go through this process in my opinion. 

Knowing yourself well, and what you want (doesn’t have to be perfect), will make things easier for both partners.

And now I will ask you again… how do you want your experience to be in terms of relationships?

This is an assumption that you can integrate:

It’s so natural to me to have beautiful relationships!

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