Mindset – The Silent Business Partner
Your mindset is either your biggest investor or your greatest liability!
Your ally or your enemy.
And this applies in both, business and personal life.
The way you approach a situation will have a huge impact on your outcome.
Let’s take the 80/20 rule. Mindset vs action.
This rule evolved from the Pareto Principle. Pareto said that if you focus on 20% of actions you will get 80% of results. Modern coaches took this principle and integrated it into personal growth metrics.
From here the present rule of 80/20.
This rule means that – you should focus 80% on mindset to get those 20% of actions.
Which is nothing but the truth!
I will even go further with this saying that success is, actually, 90% mindset and 10% action. (I mention this in some other posts too)
This conclusion is a strong belief I have, after testing many different ways, for years, to get what I wanted – in my personal life and business.
I used to take a lot of action, ignoring my inner thoughts and feelings. I got some results from it, but not for the long run. Being impulsive didn’t help either, in fact, made it worse.
I lacked self-control, which made it difficult to shift my mindset no matter how hard I tried.
I was stuck in this rabbit hole.
Mental clarity was not as ongoing as it is now. Emotional regulation was off (now present whenever I need it) – all of my efforts seemed so difficult and with low results.
Thought I had to work even harder, to the point I was extremely exhausted – and from this point nothing good came out (of course).
Thought I must be doing something wrong. Confidence and self-trust were up and down, mostly down during work.
Fears were building and building.
Fear of failure along with fear of success (yep), imposture syndrome, fear of not being good enough… I was functioning with a scarcity mindset thinking that there were not enough resources.
On a personal level, this created fear of uncertainty which led to other unpleasant things. Add raising a kid on top of that.
Overwhelming is a small word to describe the above.
I just described the real struggle that entrepreneurs and business owners face, didn’t I?
Quite a list huh? (lol)
I also say often that business and personal life are interconnected through mindset. It is so.
One affects the other and vice versa.
Is not possible to say I have a good mindset regarding business but I am a mess in my personal life. One builds the other. You either have it or you don’t.
Can you be successful without a healthy mindset? Dang sure!
But having the right mindset in place makes the journey more pleasant, more satisfying, and easier.
Real change happened when I discovered my natural way of shifting my mindset (most of what was known in this area was not working for me), I was forced to do it in my own way because I wanted to change.
I said to myself – if others could do it so can I.
I started to ask questions, like – What can I do to improve my mindset?
From here other questions… and the answers started to flow… A game-changer for me!
Proud to say now that I have some unique, very efficient methods to go about it. 🌟
Was it difficult? Yep. Is it possible? Yep.
Is it worth it or necessary? I will let you answer this one.
You can’t be a good leader without a healthy mindset in place.
You can’t choose proper relationships (of any kind) without a healthy mindset in place.
You can’t give your all to your kid(s) as a parent, without a healthy mindset in place.
And you can harmoniously integrate a healthy mindset when you reach a top level of self-control, and further on, when you reach a top level of self-mastery.
You start realizing that failure is golden and it teaches you so much if you become a good observer.
Everything becomes clear, easy, ideas and action plans flow, emotional regulation is there, intuition is high and you trust it every time.
You release negative situations, worries, and stress, faster than ever.
You spot people who don’t align with your life, or biz, vision. You also spot those who are walking the same journey with you.
It’s easy to be your authentic self every time.
You fully trust your journey.
You are at peace with yourself regardless of what life throws at you.
In other words – Everything falls into place!
There comes a moment when you realize you can’t keep waiting for the “right time”.
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What’s one mindset shift that changed your business game? What about your personal life?