X-Ray Code – Precision becomes Power
X-Ray Code business system
where Precision becomes Power.
Priorities & Narcissists
Make yourself a priority if you want others to respond the same. When you become a second option or not an option at all, that’s a straightforward message that you’re surrounded by the wrong people. Or that you have to work on your beliefs, boundaries, and rules, which puts you in the position of becoming a priority.
If you find yourself in the first situation, surrounded by the wrong people, and not realizing it, you’ll start to develop guilt, shame, low self-esteem. You’ll think that is your fault for becoming a second option for X person, that you have to do more, to prove more… just to grab their attention. This is a toxic behavior towards yourself that is deepening your low self-esteem. This type of behavior is met in relationships with narcissists.
Let me tell you “a secret” – we all meet a narcissist in our life at some point.
The question is, where are you at with yourself when this happens?
Choose to Transform Yourself
Let’s celebrate our human state in all its layers.
You are part of this Infinite Universe. Physically small but the most powerful! This is exactly why you can have multiple experiences, good and bad. You were given a body, a mind, a soul. To be able to have this amazing human experience here on Earth.
To appreciate joy, happiness, love… you’re given the opposite. When you experience life drama in any shape or form you’re forced to search inside you ultimately. When you overcome those moments you get to experience real joy, happiness… The more you get to understand the negative situations in your life the more you’ll experience the positive ones. You don’t even have to completely overcome it to get there, you just have to W A N T to understand them.
Attract better relationships and people
From time to time I receive messages from women telling me they want to be like me. Sending my full appreciation to all of you! This is a huge step forward to your personal growth, to recognize that you can learn more from other women. This is how I started my journey too, in my 20’s. I was always fascinated by powerful women, by people better than me, and took any occasion I had to start a conversation with them.
We learn from each other in all ways, always! This is how we grow, by having real experiences and interactions. And by releasing the ego – is how you make room for new information that can help you move forward into becoming what you want (life or business).
Transforming into something better starts with your decision to change, to grow.
Anxiety and panic attacks solution
This might be the only post you’ll need about this topic.
When, why, and how to start taking control over it.
Anxiety happens when you feel stress, fear, or worry. High levels of these feelings lead to panic attacks. When this is happening (I’ll name a few sensations), your heartbeat is racing, your palms are sweating, muscles get tense, your breathing gets intense, and even start shaking.
A panic attack can last from 5 minutes up to hours, it depends on every one of you.
You start feeling anxious when you’re still attached to a past experience. When you fear the present. When you fear what the future holds for you, thinking that what happened will interfere.
Understanding Childhood Trauma
Everything is happening because you carry that childhood trauma with you. How many times did you hear this? Many times, I’m sure.
It holds a bit of truth. You start embodying beliefs in childhood, you form patterns influenced first of all by your childhood experiences.
You carry those experiences with you during life, blaming what happened to you back then.
Why is this still happening? Why all your choices are influenced by those experiences?
Attract your ideal partner
“We do arrive on Earth through a Love process.
We do become better because of Love.
We do destroy others because of… lack of Love.
We are capable of doing Anything in the name of Love!
Another amazing fact about Love, is that we already own it, it’s in every one of us since birth. When you’re searching for Love outside of you it is because you want to share it and not because you want to find it.”
Detached Attachment
You may have the tendency to form attachments to material things, people in your life, or situations.
Attachment to material things is formed when you need to feel secure, safe… and by having those material things your emotional need is fulfilled (at least you think so) – this is your primary assumption in this situation. Operating from this assumption leads to increased ownership sense, which leads further to a fake “happy” emotion provided only when you own those material things. To go even further, a strong material attachment leads to a fixed mindset (no growth here), to a life without real meaning, where what you have equals who you are.
How to Let Go?
Not being able to detach from a situation is what many times keeps you stuck in the same negative cycle.
You can’t look back and move forward at the same time.
Triggers
Does the word itself make you feel uncomfortable?
A trigger is a sensory reminder of an unpleasant event that affects your emotional state.
You may find yourself getting triggered by a smell, by a touch, by something you read, something you see, hear…
By a beautiful woman, by a successful person, or by an intelligent one – just some examples.
This happens a lot, especially among women, they often trigger each other.
Now that you got familiar with the word (are you still reading?), let’s discuss the root cause of triggers.
Merge your business success with personal life
Can you run a successful business without being healed on a personal level? With a broken heart? While having limiting beliefs or low confidence?
Of course you can! Many successful people are doing it. How?
