Understanding Childhood Trauma
Everything is happening because you carry that childhood trauma with you. How many times did you hear this? Many times, I’m sure.
It holds a bit of truth. You start embodying beliefs in childhood, you form patterns influenced first of all by your childhood experiences.
You carry those experiences with you during life, blaming what happened to you back then.
Why is this still happening? Why all your choices are influenced by those experiences?
Attract your ideal partner
“We do arrive on Earth through a Love process.
We do become better because of Love.
We do destroy others because of… lack of Love.
We are capable of doing Anything in the name of Love!
Another amazing fact about Love, is that we already own it, it’s in every one of us since birth. When you’re searching for Love outside of you it is because you want to share it and not because you want to find it.”
Detached Attachment
You may have the tendency to form attachments to material things, people in your life, or situations.
Attachment to material things is formed when you need to feel secure, safe… and by having those material things your emotional need is fulfilled (at least you think so) – this is your primary assumption in this situation. Operating from this assumption leads to increased ownership sense, which leads further to a fake “happy” emotion provided only when you own those material things. To go even further, a strong material attachment leads to a fixed mindset (no growth here), to a life without real meaning, where what you have equals who you are.
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How to Let Go?
Not being able to detach from a situation is what many times keeps you stuck in the same negative cycle.
You can’t look back and move forward at the same time.
Triggers
Does the word itself make you feel uncomfortable?
A trigger is a sensory reminder of an unpleasant event that affects your emotional state.
You may find yourself getting triggered by a smell, by a touch, by something you read, something you see, hear…
By a beautiful woman, by a successful person, or by an intelligent one – just some examples.
This happens a lot, especially among women, they often trigger each other.
Now that you got familiar with the word (are you still reading?), let’s discuss the root cause of triggers.
Merge your business success with personal life
Can you run a successful business without being healed on a personal level? With a broken heart? While having limiting beliefs or low confidence?
Of course you can! Many successful people are doing it. How?
Shift Your Self-Concept
If a fish swims in dirty water, do you give the fish some medicine to make him healthier or do you change the water to a clean one?
Keep this analogy in mind and reflect on your daily decisions and actions.
Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind
There is an infinite intelligence within you, within your subconscious mind. Waiting to be awakened and accessed. Your subconscious mind holds all of your habits, your limiting beliefs, but also ALL the answers you seek.
When you came into this world you knew how to breathe – your subconscious mind holds this information already, like everything else, from the moment you arrive on this Earth.
Then, you learn how to walk, talk, run, read, write, drive… all of these are habits stored in the subconscious mind that you do on autopilot without thinking HOW to do it, you just do it.
In the very same way, you borrow patterns from people around you, about how relationships should be, about self-confidence, about being successful… which leads to personal experiences in this direction.
SUSPEND YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS!
Limiting beliefs are simply your negative beliefs, your negative self-talk. Let’s say you want a better relationship. You start applying positive self-talk (affirmations), visualizing, imagining… but you still can’t get what you want.
This is happening because, while you’re doing the work to get what you want, your self-concept about relationships, for example, is negative.
You might find yourself saying – I always attract bad situations when it comes to relationships. Men/women disappear from life so quickly. They don’t appreciate me, they always lie…
And you can go on, and on…
