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What does your mind say?

One single thought can change your mood, your day.

One mindset shift can change your life.

 

Your mind is constantly whispering to you.

 

  • What if you fail?
  • You can’t do this.
  • You can’t slow down or you’ll lose everything.
  • There’s not enough time/resources

Or

 

  • I’ll never find someone like them again
  • I’ve failed
  • I need someone to feel complete
  • If I don’t settle now, I’ll end up alone

 

And the list goes on and on…

 

Your natural approach will be to dismiss them. (Wrong move! Dive right into it Without getting trapped there – I have lots of helpful tips to guide you through it.)

 

The truth is – your whispers don’t have to hold you back, they can push you forward.

If you train your mind and heart in this direction.

 

Curious how I turned my whispers into motivation and tangible results?

Take a look at my previous post called Mindset – Your Silent Business Partner, where I dive deeper into mastering this battlefield.

 

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Real Perspective and Mindset on Relationships

 

I have a very different vision, perspective on love, on intimate relationships.

 

As I say in my book (The Journal of Human Emotions), to be able to offer/give love you have to contain it first.

 

Which makes you love the other person without toxic attachement, thinking (as many songs convey this message) that you are nothing if you lose that person’s love.

 

That right here is toxic! 

Also the reason why so many women and men can’t get over a failed relationship.

And they get lost in this rabbit hole of getting back to their ex at any cost… years in a row.

Or, in the same line of this toxic relationship mindset, they can’t be alone and Need to find someone asap. 

And guess what? They do, but with the wrong partners which keeps them further in this loop, in this lost battle.

 

I do agree though that a relationship gives you a sense of self, of belonging. And this is what we actually search for.

 

I believe this is only 40% of the real truth.

 

You want to know what is the other 60%?

 

It’s you! Your values, beliefs, and who you truly are as a human being in a self-growth journey.

 

And this journey, of discovering who you are should go on in and out of a relationship.

 

What I’m trying to say in the end, is

 

Aim for a relationship that allows you to continue this journey of self with all the good and “weirdness” it comes.

While they do the same.

 

And this type of mindset puts you in the position of attracting what is best for you, and Not.. chasing – as many do, men and women.

 

That’s what I call a healthy relationship.

And this simply means, as I also mention in TJOHE book, that you have a Together and Separate journey at the same time. Which is the final completion.

 

Of course, the traits of a relationship don’t end here. You want a reliable partner, caring, loving, supporting and so on… but this is just common sense in my opinion.

Why would you want a relationship otherwise?

 

Final conclusion.

Discover who you are truly, make this a priority and not another person. This way you gonna fully enjoy each other’s company.

 

To get to live by this mindset, to embody it, you have to learn…

Self Control! 

Of thoughts, emotions, actions and reactions.

 

Go read the book!

 

And of course as always, if you feel ready to start your journey with me, you know what you have to do – message me. 

(and please use a full sentence when you contact me for the first time, I don’t answer to hi messages, or emoji…)

 

What is your opinion of a healthy relationship?

 

D.

 

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Money Talks. Facts.

 

Money talks. Facts.

 

Money isn’t evil or dirty. People who use them with wrong intentions are.

Selfish people.

Read that one more time.

 

I don’t do lots of posts on money, but this is one of them and I intend for this info to help you shift your money mindset.

 

I struggled for quite some time with a fear I had in this direction.

It was… fear of success!

Yes, it’s very real.

 

Because I always was, am, an observer, I could see what having money and success does to some people.

And it’s not good.

 

I had to work through it as I knew I didn’t want to change who I was. Who I am. Because of money.

 

This was, is and will be, a huge thing for me – to remain authentic no matter what.

 

Note: If you want more insights about this specific, personal journey, read my book (TJOHE). Among other stories that are there to support and inspire you on all levels.

 

Back to this post.

So I’ve started to work on these beliefs.

 

On assumptions like:

Money changes who you are.

Money makes you greedy.

You can lose who you are if you get successful.

Money doesn’t bring real happiness. Etc.

But I’ve found the way to shift those beliefs and make it work for me.

It starts with clear intentions, the rest is natural flow. 

And practice.

 

What I’ve also found is that, when you do deep self work, and actually release anything that is holding you back from your purpose (and I’m talking about deep inner work, consistent), financial opportunities appear as a natural consequence.

 

In conclusion, ideally is to do the inner work first then focus on money. They go hand in hand.

 

Of course, you do what you have to do to survive. We do live in a world where money is necessary.

But this is for the short term.

In the long run, for those that desire more from life and have good intentions on how to use their wealth…

Do the inner work!

To make it last.

 

How?

Well, start gaining full self control over your thoughts, emotions, actions and reactions.

And this is a process that can take time, BUT is so worth it!

 

I will list bellow a few assumptions you can start implementing right away.

 

Money is here to serve me. 

I use them and not viceversa.

Money is here to help fulfill my purpose.

Money is here to help me in being my best version.

Money is a tool that doesn’t control my life and who I am, I am the one using this tool in perfect balance always.

Therefore, money flows to me like water always. 

For me to keep, spend, invest, donate, for the best interest of all.

May this help you!

If you have questions, or you want to start working with me, send a message.

 

Have a great day!

D.

 

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How to release anger

 

How to temper your anger

 

I will start by saying that is a NORMAL feeling.

And sometimes, when things go against your beliefs, people or/and situations will get you mad.

It happens even to the calmest people. (myself included)

But how to handle this anger when it’s happening?

When you have an intense argument with someone else?

When all you want is to express your anger right there? And just say whatever comes out in that moment…

 

You’re going to DO and SAY things that you’ll soon regret.

This is what Uncontrolled anger does!

Here are some steps to take when you find yourself in this situation.

 

1 – Breathe. Take a deep breath, this will save you a few seconds and help to calm a bit and to stop reacting.

 

2 – Remove yourself from that place/person physically.

Go in another room or go outside for a walk, fresh air and walks (moving your body) is going to help you calm down even more and think clearly.

 

3 – Exercise forming new beliefs around it, new habits. Here is the most important part.

When alone, let the anger out, express yourself.

Then, start asking yourself questions to understand if it’s really something major or not.

Either way, major or not, you still have to release it out of your system.

And you can do that by sending positive intentions towards yourself and the person involved.

 

Yeah, I know, not easy to do. I agree. 

But! But.

You can just say it.

You can use your anger as fuel! And send positive intentions.

I use this fast line first:

Universe bless them! God bless them!

It works very fast when it’s not a major thing. Instantly.

 

For major things, I use the same line… 

With a twist.

It works very fast, in a few hours max all is out of my system.

 

Can you have good intentions towards someone when angry? Well not always, it’s hard, I get it. This is why I created that twist.

 

There is also a method through which you can release anger, and not only.

Journaling!

Also, with a TWIST.

 

As you can see I have different ways to go about it, when it comes to releasing negative emotions and thoughts. (I share some in my book too).

Is all about learning

SELF CONTROL in any situation.

And getting yourself back on track.

The sooner you start practicing, the faster you’ll get where you want!

 

I’ll be happy to share with you the twist(s) and methods I apply to make it so efficient in releasing anger.

 

Of course, within paid sessions.

If you feel ready on all levels to start your journey with me, message me.

 

Have a great week!

D.

 

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Why your manifestation doesn’t work

Why your manifestation doesn’t work?

What is going on in the back of your mind when you’re manifesting?

Let’s say you want to manifest your sp. You say your sp is always calling you, or texting you, but what you think is where is he/she, what he’s doing, does he/she has someone else in their life?

 

This exactly is why your affirmation doesn’t work. You have to do revision always when something like this happens.

You do revision by replacing what you think with your desire.

If you wonder why he doesn’t call you or text you, immediately replace it with: he is going to call me any minute now, she is going to text me any minute now. He can’t stay without me, he needs me in his life always.

You can do it in your mind or on paper. Journal about it.

Have 2 columns where you write in the left what upsets you about him or her, and in the right column what is your desired outcome. Create a habit out of it.

 

Revision is powerful if you practice it every time your mind thinks something else than you desire.

Practice revision always to get in the feeling of it and to get your manifestation faster.

The even if method helps too.

 

If you want me to help you on your journey and manifest faster, message me.

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The story of how I manifested my son and his health

How I manifested my son

 

This time I am going to share the story of how I manifested my son and his health. 

 

My son is one of the greatest manifestations ever. Planned him in my early 20’s. I always said, when I had family discussions with friends, that I will have a child right after 30 years old, married or not. And I did! I had my son at 31 years old.

Even though he was planned in the summer of 2012 when his father and I took the decision to have a child. 

When we saw the delay we went to some checkups. All turned out well but I wasn’t getting pregnant.

During this time I always KNEW I am going to have a child no matter what.

In January 2013 we were getting ready for another round of checkups, to see what is the issue if any, again. A couple of days before the appointment with the doctor I woke up in the middle of the night feeling sick and throwing up. The next day I bought a pregnancy test right away, I knew it and the test confirmed it.

I was speechless, I couldn’t talk when I saw it. One of the happiest days of my life.

 

The next manifestation regarding my son was right before his birth, something wasn’t going well he needed to stay longer in the hospital than normal and they didn’t have a solution at that time. So, I started saying that no matter what my son is coming home healthy. Even if my son was in the hospital I start affirming that he is well and home with us. And so it was, in just a couple of days my son was home feeling better. And he is better to this day.

 

No matter what is going on, know that is going to be alright if you persist.

I intend for this story to inspire you to never give up! Your assumptions manifest always, make it intentional.

I am here to guide you as your mindset and manifestation coach.

Denisa

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How to choose to change YOUR LIFE

You wake up every single day choosing how your day is going to be.

Choosing how you going to show up in your business.

Choosing how your love life is going to be.

Choosing how your partner is going to show up.

 

You choose every single day how your life is going to be in every aspect of it.

 

You also wake up every day with the power of changing what you don’t like.

Also by choice.

 

Change the way you are going to show up every day.

Change how your love life is going to be.

Change how your business is going to be.

 

Change how your life is going to be.

 

You can use scripting, visualization, and affirmations to shift your deepest limiting beliefs into what you want. Or simply decide to change your reality. It starts with your strongest assumptions.

Millions of people did it, is your turn now.

 

Assume that you are going to show up as the best version of yourself every day, make it your affirmation, your new assumption and watch how things start to shift.

 

Get to work and practice every single day until your assumption is implemented.

 

Have a wonderful and magical day,

Denisa

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Get lucky by using the Even If method

I always considered myself lucky. 

 

I was lucky in my 20’s when I decided to have fun and make money at the same time. Worked in the best bars and I was in top 1% of the staff that made large amounts of money.

I was lucky in my 30’s when I started working in the digital marketing space and soon after became top rated freelancer in my expertise, with low engagement, clients came to me on autopilot and made good income. And this happened in the first year.

I was lucky when 7 years later started my coaching and consultancy business when I got engagement from the first posts and further clients.

I still consider myself lucky to this day in everything I do. While I realized in all of this time what was playing in the back of my mind in every situation.

Was the Even If method.

I always said to myself – Even if I don’t know how to go about this business, situation, I fully trust is going to work in my favor. Even if I don’t have the amount of money I want yet, I fully trust is going to be fruitful for me any minute now, easily and effortlessly.

This is how my luck was translated, through the even-if method plus hands-on strategies. Always. It was a mix of 80% mindset and 20% action. And it comes true without hesitation. 

And my luck continued in many areas of my life and still does.

 

You can get lucky too. Start now and practice it. It takes intention and full trust to get what you want, in any area of your life.

What do you want?

A successful business and growth? Set the intention and practice.

The relationship of your dreams? Set the intention and practice.

A better life? Set the intention and practice.

 

If you want my support to make it happen faster ad easier, message me.

 

Denisa

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When to stop manifesting your desire. How to know you implemented a new belief.

Expectation is the transition of your perspective. You get to expect what you wanted (whatever you’re manifesting) when you change or shift your perspective about the thing or person you want.

That is the moment when you feel like you don’t have to do any work, say affirmations, visualize etc. It is implemented in your subconscious mind as a belief and naturally, you expect it to happen any minute.

 

So if you wondered when you stop your manifestation practice (visualization, affirmation, scripting, etc.) you have the answer. You stop the process when you expect it, when you know is going to happen. You might not know yet HOW is going to happen, but you know is going to happen.

 

This is how you also know you’ve implemented successfully an assumption, and eventually a belief.

 

From this moment on your reality MUST conform. It’s the LAW at work!

 

And now I will give you this powerful affirmation, that is natural and gets into your subconscious mind fast just through repetition.

 

I receive amazing news that is going to change my life forever into what I always wanted, and this is going to happen any minute now!

 

If you feel resistance add the even if method to it.

 

Go wild with it! Use it for your health too!

 

Denisa

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Manifest what you want WHEN in a low vibration with the Even If method

For how long are you just saying your affirmations without results?

Thinking positively only doesn’t work if you don’t address your negative state, your limiting beliefs around what you’re trying to manifest.

 

The very first thing you need to do is to spot them and bring them to the surface, not push them down. Remember that the strongest assumption you have manifests always.

In this case, your limiting belief is going to be the one until you learn to dismiss it.

 

What are you actually saying to yourself in the back of your mind when saying your positive affirmations?

 

You may say: 

My ideal partner is coming my way any minute now.

 

While in the back of your mind the other assumption plays like this:

There is no ideal partner for me out there. My crush is not talking to me, doesn’t even observe me…

 

Is this pattern familiar to you?

If you’re looking to release limiting beliefs and get unstuck to manifest your desires, you can do it by using the even if method.

 

This method is going to release all of your negative beliefs very fast and get you moving toward what you want.

 

And you can do this while feeling low, while in a low vibration. This is the whole point of this method.

 

Another explanation of why the even if method is so effective is because your brain doesn’t make the difference between feeling excited or anxious. 

When you’re using your negative state to get what you want you’re tricking your brain to believe what you actually want, with a little twist.

 

Next time when you’re having doubts about your crush, or your ideal partner, coming towards you, just use the even if method like this:

Even if I have doubts that my ideal partner is coming toward me, and he/she maybe doesn’t even know about my existence which makes me worried that he/she will ever come toward me… I choose to FULLY trust that is going to happen any minute now. I trust that the Law is working always and is going to bring forward my crush, is going to bring my ideal partner as I want. I choose to believe that my wish is already granted by the Universe, by God!

 

If you want your personalized method, reach out.

 

Denisa

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