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Check-in with Your Brain Waves To Create The Life You Want

Check-in with your brain waves

 

Beta. The state when you’re alert, doing your daily tasks.

Alpha. The state of light relaxation. When you take a break for a cup of coffee, or tea, or to enjoy a stunning nature view.

Theta. This is where your creative power starts. In this state you create what you want faster, you impress your subconscious mind faster. This is the state when you’re in deep relaxation, feeling drowsy. Or in SATS (state akin to sleep). 

You get in T H E T A state a few times a day. Under the shower, before you fall asleep, and right before you wake up. As a few examples.

Theta is also the state where hypnosis happens. This is how you get into self-hypnosis, by inducing a theta state. All of us can do it.

Delta – When you’re in a deep sleep. The healing state I like to call it, is where you’re body regenerates. 

Let’s throw on top the fifth one, Gamma waves. Is the state where you are intensely focused on something, the learning state.

What if you’ll get that intense thought from Gamma and bring it to Theta? You’ll get what is called focused meditation. It takes practice to keep the focus but is so worth it.

 

Back to Theta state.

 

Some business owners that run multiple 7-8 figures use this state to create solutions when they’re stuck on a problem.

Einstein, Edison, Salvador Dali, and others used it for creation, and to figure out their next steps. Without all of the information we have access to right now, they did it intuitively.

You can use it too! Theta is the manifestation state. The creative state!

What do you want to create for your business or personal life? Start practicing.

Start napping with intention. Do it for 5 to 10 minutes a day, get in theta state.

Use this assumption:

It’s so natural for me to get all the answers I want every time I want!

 

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Is he the one? Is she the one?

Is he the one? Is she the one?

Society teaches you to get married within a certain age, otherwise, you won’t fit in. People might consider there is something wrong with you, isn’t it? Well, it depends on what matters most for you – to “fit in” or to live a joyful life where you feel at peace with yourself…

Having this relationship idea implemented in your subconscious mind becomes your no 1 priority, your life goal. This is exactly why you can’t enjoy and explore relationships, why you hurry and jump into relationships that eventually you discover they’re not a match. You get carried away by the first spark you have with a person wondering every time you meet someone new: 

Is he the one? Is she the one?

You’re looking for guarantees in the other person without even knowing what you actually want. Thinking that compliments received are always enough, thinking that having chemistry is enough to move further on, thinking… that the first person that tells you: “I like you” is The One. All because you have planted this deep belief that you have to get married asap, to… fit in.

Let me tell you something else, not even love is enough to take this decision. 

I said, what I said. And is true. 

Just have a look at the breakup percentage of people in love that got married after the first “I love you”… it doesn’t look good at all.

To be able to decide consciously if you should get married or not, you’ll have to take into consideration other similarities between you two. Like religion, friendships, family perspective, kid’s perspective, relationship concept, career, childhood story, and any other life perspective you might want to know about. 

Again, having a spark, chemistry, or even love for each other is not enough to decide to build a strong long-term relationship.

When you dismiss this marriage belief and focus more on who you want to become, what you want to do with your life, what you’re dreams are… you’ll be able to enjoy relationships at a different level, a more conscious level.

Where you’ll not be asking yourself every time you meet someone if he or she’s the one.

Where you’ll enjoy every moment as it comes without pressure or feeling unwanted.

Where you’ll value yourself and you’re beliefs.

Where you’ll be able to offer more and learn how to receive back as well.

Where you’ll have boundaries in place, but also respect your partner’s boundaries with ease.

Where everything flows, regardless the outcome.

Where you can have an equal give and take on all levels.

Don’t let your life be ruled by this one question – Is he the one? Is she the one? You’ll add unnecessary stress and pressure to your life.

Enjoy the people you accept. Don’t set a timer on them. Will be for one week? One month? One year? A lifetime?

Who knows?

Nothing and nobody can guarantee how long a person will be part of your life. Not even marriage. So, give yourself some break and enjoy moments as they come.

Release this belief that doesn’t bring you joy but pressure. Life has other wonderful things to offer and to focus on, you just need a different perspective. 

Reset your mindset.

Get to know yourself better first, before getting to know someone else.

Use this affirmation and integrate it as an assumption:

I know who I am and what I want, and this is reflected in my life every day in every way!

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Have a magical week,

Denisa

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Release fear of rejection

Acting indifferent when you care is the same as pretending you care when you don’t. 

Who or what makes the difference?

People overcomplicate things when it comes to relationships. Short or long terms ones, doesn’t matter. They are afraid to show what they feel, and what they want, creating different scenarios due to overthinking. To eventually discover that it wasn’t at all as they thought after taking action on the situation.

Fear of rejection is a big one and many people experience it, especially when it comes to relationships. Lack of confidence as well. 

From here the overthinking process starts. And continues. And continues… Until you find the courage, the confidence to actually act on what you want. Or, until you miss the chance to actually get an answer – considering afterward how unlucky you are.

People love overcomplicating things… 

My point here? Work on your fears and confidence always. You are not alone in this process. The only difference between people getting what they want and those that aren’t is simply the choice of acting on it, or not. Is having a healthy mindset in place – which covers all aspects of living a better life.

When you want to create conscious relationships you have to act consciously about it. This includes getting comfortable with saying no if needed, but also with receiving a no. There are always new chapters to explore.

This is an affirmation you can use to release fear of rejection:

It’s so easy and natural for me to release fear of rejection!

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Emotion Is More Powerful Than Thought

Emotion is more powerful than thought. This doesn’t mean that thought can’t influence emotion. It does.

Emotion allows you to empathize with other humans, to create new connections, new friendships, new relationships. Of course, you can decide to connect by thought alone with others, based on personal interest, but we all know this was never the best decision to follow as they are ending fast, plus it doesn’t bring real personal fulfillment.

Emotion is what changes your mindset. You take decisions based on how you feel, and when emotions are not balanced then you may say – it wasn’t a good choice to act on your feelings.

The rule should be simple, if it feels good it is good. If not, it’s not. 

In between those two confusion can interfere.  Where “confusion” is fear, ego, and/or low self-esteem. Which makes it difficult to make the right decision, right?

This is the moment when you learn how to become neutral, to reset. You can get into this state by breathing deeply a few times, to detach from emotions and thoughts.

When in a neutral state you can bring forward the matter you need to decide on. Pay attention to the first impressions you get because that is your answer.

And I just told you how you can access Intuition.

In = inside

Tuition comes from Latin tueri = to guard. Tuition also means care, protection – same thing.

Intuition is your internal protection and guidance. Which I associate with spirit connection, divine connection, or God’s connection – call it as you want.

I don’t intend to teach Latin in this post, but this brings more clarity. Spirit word origin comes also from the Latin spiritus, which means breath.

A simple conclusion from this is that you connect with your inner guidance through breath. And your inner guidance is in your heart.

The heart’s electrical field is about 60 times greater in amplitude than the electrical activity generated by the brain. The electromagnetic energy field of the heart is 5000 times greater than the brain. This means your heart will pick up answers faster than your brain can.

Emotions rule thoughts! Emotions can take over your thoughts faster than thoughts can influence emotions.

When you’re manifesting getting in the feeling of it is what makes it happen.

As N. Goddard says – Feeling is the secret!

 

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Denisa

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Build a life you love! Rewire your brain.

The science of our ability to rewire our thoughts and feelings is called Neuroplasticity.

Neuroplasticity is the brain’s ability to change and adapt as a result of experience.

Neuroplasticity = the capacity of neurons and neural networks in the brain to change their connections and behavior in response to new information, sensory stimulation, development, damage, or dysfunction.

Neural pathways are strengthened into habits through the repetition and practice of thinking, feeling, and acting.

This is how you rewire your brain, through repetition. This is how you always learned a new skill since you were a child. Through repetition.

Once you learned something new will go into your subconscious mind, which means you’ll do that specific thing on autopilot – walk, talk, drive, act, think, behave…

Now, ask yourself, what do you want to transform in your life? 

Choose that thought, make it an affirmation and start repeating it.

What behavior do you want to replace? 

What habit?

What situation?

Take a minimum of 10 minutes a day to practice.

Choose mindfully what you want and create a life you love!

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Beliefs drive behavior. Behavior builds beliefs.

“When you change the way you look at things, things you look at change” – Wayne Dyer

Such a simple but powerful quote that summarizes everything you need to be able to change your life.

Changing how you look at things, which is your perspective about a particular situation, is helping you achieve a high-level mindset. A healthy mindset.

For example, if you’re thinking that you always get into relationships where you’re being used, you’ll end up with partners that will do just that.

Beliefs drive behavior. Behavior builds beliefs.

This deeper belief (assumption) that you have is modifying your behavior, conscious or not, which leads to this outcome – getting in relationships where you’re being used.

Or, if you think that everybody you meet is going away from your life sooner or later.

Men or women you meet are all the same, they don’t want meaningful relationships.

Partners you meet stay with you just for your money. Or, true love doesn’t exist.

The list can continue…

The conclusion is that your beliefs about a specific situation form a specific behavior towards people around you. 

When you change your perspective about that specific situation, your behavior will adapt as well. Which leads to your desired outcome.

hat negative belief to be able to change it. Or, you don’t know exactly how to apply it in your favor.

If you are in this situation, I am here to guide you.

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Release Past Experiences

What you ask for many times is right in front of you. You don’t see it always because you’re too busy looking at past mistakes, past experiences.

And this is what most people are doing. Asking, wanting something new while you’re not ready to release the old experiences.

This is also part of personal growth. Not only knowing what you want but getting ready to release what you don’t.

Old experiences are not always a match for the new ones.

Most of your self-work is done when you can release what doesn’t serve you anymore. This part is more important than knowing what you want. Is enough to know what you don’t want, to move forward.

Start identifying yourself with new experiences. Do it in the same way you associate your life with the past ones.

That is your natural way of manifesting.

Implement this assumption to release what you don’t want:

I release all negative experiences into the Universe (God) within. I now fully trust that it’s already done. Thank you for showing me that this issue is already solved!

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Stop chasing relationships

Why do people get married in our days? Why so many breakups?

Many people get into relationships or get married, driven by different beliefs.

The most common reasons are: 

Money & status.

Pushed by family and/or friends because “it’s time”.

Fear of loneliness.

True love.

The percentage of people starting a relationship, or getting married out of true love is small, unfortunately. This is exactly why the divorce rate and breakups are increasing.

It’s much easier to jump into a relationship hoping it will be fine than to take the time to work on yourself and figure out what you really want and how you want it. Of course, living a bit of room for the unknown. This is what I call the comfort zone, which eventually is not at all.

When you choose a relationship based on the first 3 reasons get ready to be unhappy, it will not fill your soul’s needs, not in the long term. 

In spiritual terms, you’ll not be aligned with your soul purpose.

We meet new people to have new experiences. We get in relationships (or get married) for the same reason. All is experience. Experience leads to growth, to transformation.

How do you want your experience to be? 

Based on evolution and growth, which will bring forward your other material desires and not only? Or based on stagnation? 

Which will create blockages on many levels.

Blockages at a soul level will manifest in your body too, in many forms.

Led by the above beliefs, you can find yourself chasing your ideal partner for a lifetime. Thinking is wrong not to be in a relationship or married.

You are not here to chase love, or just to be in a relationship, get married, have kids… 

You are here to discover, first, Who You are beyond what labels and beliefs others gave you.

And who you are is what brings you joy, that you can share with others.

Who you are is what brings your ideal partner. Naturally.

Love is a natural process, let it happen naturally. You will know when it happens.

Switch the priority order and watch what happens. 

Start working on yourself, on your beliefs, on what you want to do, and allow relationships to simply happen. Don’t force the process.

Marriage should happen only after you go through this process in my opinion. 

Knowing yourself well, and what you want (doesn’t have to be perfect), will make things easier for both partners.

And now I will ask you again… how do you want your experience to be in terms of relationships?

This is an assumption that you can integrate:

It’s so natural to me to have beautiful relationships!

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How to keep a mental diet

“The first step towards self-change, towards balance in life, is observation, gratitude, then forgiveness, and last but not least, love.”
 
 
You start your observation process by becoming aware of what you think and feel. This is how you keep a mental diet.
When you observe what you think and feel you can consider what you want to change, to replace.
Becoming aware of your thoughts and feelings will help you release and replace resentment.
This is how you start implementing new beliefs, new assumptions.
By observing.
 
Observation = Awareness
 
Next time when you catch yourself repeating an old negative pattern (thought, reaction…) stop for a second and ask yourself:
Do I want to continue with this behavior? What results do I get from it? How can I replace this thought?
Find the statement and apply it.
 
This is how you keep a mental diet.
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Choose to Transform Yourself

Let’s celebrate our human state in all its layers.

You are part of this Infinite Universe. Physically small but the most powerful! This is exactly why you can have multiple experiences, good and bad. You were given a body, a mind, a soul. To be able to have this amazing human experience here on Earth.

To appreciate joy, happiness, love… you’re given the opposite. When you experience life drama in any shape or form you’re forced to search inside you ultimately. When you overcome those moments you get to experience real joy, happiness… The more you get to understand the negative situations in your life the more you’ll experience the positive ones. You don’t even have to completely overcome it to get there, you just have to W A N T to understand them.

How would you know what joy is without sadness?

How would you know what courage is without fear?

How would you know what togetherness is without loneliness?

How would you know what calm is without anger?

How would you know what health is without diseases?

How would you know what love is without indifference?

How would you discover W H O   Y O U   A R E  without emotional drama?

You were given a magic wand – FREE WILL! Which is nothing but the power to C H O O S E your life perspective, how you want to feel, how you want to think, your beliefs… You choose always what clothes to wear, what food to buy, what car to drive, what jewelry to wear…

You choose your friends, you choose when to react, when to talk, when to sleep, when to wake up…

You choose something every second of the day – conscious or not.

When you choose more mindful change is happening.

Use your magic wand to transform your perspective, therefore your life! You made the same choices for so many years… make a change, choose differently this time and test it out.

Perspective = Your real opinion about yourself, people, and things around you = Inner conversations about yourself, people, and things around you = Deep impressions about yourself, people, and things around you

Perspective = Self-Talk

Self-Talk = Inner conversations = Inner statements = Affirmations

This is how you form beliefs. This is how you change and replace beliefs. This is how you choose every second of the day, based on those deep impressions, beliefs, self-talk… You feel what you think, and you think what you feel.

You choose based on the P E R S P E C T I V E you have!

All of this falls under the Mindset & Manifestation process and beyond. This is how you create it. This is how you change it. You get a fixed moment, an idea in your mind and you persist in it.

Usually, you do it by bringing forward past events. Why not choose something new to focus on? Something more pleasant? Something that brings a smile?

It’s a choice, and it’s yours.

Add these statements/affirmations to your self-talk routine:

I choose to focus on new things and people that bring joy in my life. I am open to receiving more joy in my life!

Release the how and trust.

When you get to see the bigger picture of how we humans function, think and feel… everything gets easier and drama disappears, making room for new exciting things in your life. 

Allow yourself to be wrong so you can discover how is it to be right. 

Give yourself some grace while on this journey!

Choose to start your transformation!

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