How many times have you felt alone? Especially when you are actually surrounded by so many people, online and offline. Even celebrities feel alone. Celebrity or not, we are all humans at the end of the day.

Loneliness is something that hits hard on many people all over the world, regardless of their status! Let’s dive in!

How many times did you ask yourself: Why do I feel alone? What makes me feel alone? The answer is not attached to the presence or absence of people around you.

It just is. The feeling is there…

I personally think is the lack of substance you surround yourself with sometimes. Meaningless friendships. Meaningless relationships. Empty talks. Why all of this is happening?

Because you don’t set yourself as a priority, and you follow the crowd. If everybody thinks, acts, like this I must do it too. And then the loneliness hits you. You start feeling empty. How can you feel otherwise when you surround yourself with empty situations that don’t feed your soul and who you are?…

And who you are can be defined ONLY by you. Guess when? When you’re alone!

This is how you best discover what you actually want from life too. The moment you discover who you are and fully accept yourself, loneliness will disappear.

Many people asked me if I ever feel alone. My answer? NO! I will explain right away why. Or, how can I be so cool about loneliness, so calm, so confident? I love my alone moments! Those are the moments when I get most creative, I write, I contemplate, or I simply relax. This is how I discovered who I am and what I want. I accepted loneliness by having a different perspective, even before I knew who I was.

Next time when you feel alone, learn how to have a coffee with yourself in order to fully accept your alone moments. This is also how you start growing your confidence.

It’s a journey, enjoy it! Don’t be afraid of it! Change your perspective and all will be just fine.

The tendency is to run away from yourself… from loneliness. That is the moment when you end up in bad friendships and relationships. Of course, there are other reasons too, but most of them have the base, the foundation, on knowing who you are. Simply because –  what you become, you attract. Your own beliefs will set the tone further on. Make sure to keep them in check.

How to cope better with your alone time? Affirm, talk to yourself – in the end, this is what affirmations are – improved self-talk.

Here is what You can say:

I feel so inspired when alone. I embrace my own company, I embrace myself. Loneliness gives me the chance to know what I want. Therefore, I accept my alone moments. Loneliness gives me that restart in life that I need. Loneliness makes things clearer for me. I love being alone! I discover faster what I want when alone. I discover faster who I am when alone. Loneliness makes me a magnet for all the positive people I want in my life!

Create your own self-talk about loneliness and you’ll see how fast things settle in your favor, getting you what you want. Which is:  Authentic connections on all levels! Who doesn’t want that?

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Have a good one!