Unconditional Love
Unconditional love
What does this statement mean to you?
I feel like people confuse it many times.
Loving someone unconditionally means you are able to release the pressure you might tend to have on them.
It means allowing them to follow own dreams while being a support. While following your own dreams.
It means creating a loving safe space for both of you to unfold and grow on all levels.
It means mutual respect regarding rules and boundaries.
It means releasing the toxic attachment where you want their full attention 24h.
It means creating a loving environment where you can be together and separate while building a healthy lifestyle.
Imagine walking from point A to Z. As you move forward you decide where to turn left, right or where to stop. You are determined to get to your point Z.
A person able to love you unconditionally will join your walk while following their own. Together and separate. And you should be able to do the same.
Here is where you can create the road map with the final destination in mind to make it work for both of you.
Draw your road map while defining priorities, personal values, beliefs, dreams, goals. Knowing your destination is going to simplify the journey. Mastering yourself is going to keep you moving forward.
It starts by implementing healthy assumptions.
Here’s one:
My desires reflect my beliefs, and therefore my reality conforms every single day!
Set your destination! I can give you the tools to draw that road map.
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Denisa
Lost in Lust
Lost in lust
The easiest thing one can do. Something that never brought long-term satisfaction. It’s “useful” when you want to forget your loneliness, when you don’t want to face what you actually desire from life or yourself, when you want fast satisfaction.
Or to feel wanted, seen… to receive immediate gratification. While you completely ignore the deeper layer of why you’re searching for continuous approval and appreciation from these shallow connections.
It’s easy to get lost in lust when you don’t want to admit the relationship (marriage) you’re in doesn’t spark your life anymore, or that maybe it never did.
It’s easy to get lost in lust when you have no idea of what a deeper connection would be like because you didn’t experience it yet.
The higher the number the greater the satisfaction…
For who? It means nothing even for you – if you’re being honest with yourself.
The more shallow connections you experience the less you want them further. Sooner or later is going to happen, is part of the process.
This is how you start implementing the belief that men, and women, don’t want a serious relationship. Or that men, women, will always disappoint.
And this belief influences your behavior which reflects your reality. Behaviour is driven by beliefs and this will get you in situations where you’ll experience the same thing over and over again. The same pattern.
So, you find it easier to get lost in lust. Again.
Your RAS (reticular activating system) does this. Will search for the pattern you implemented to confirm it. RAS is a network of neurons in your brain that filters information, what gets in and out – programmed by you and people around you.
There is a reason behind every action, not always obvious indeed. It starts with a statement (affirmation), which later gets implemented as an assumption (belief), through repetitive self-talk in regard to a particular situation.
In this case, your internal dialog is:
“Why bother, this is all they want anyway, so I’ll give them what they want. Real connections don’t exist, they will always disappoint.”
These are statements. Affirmations. And your RAS does the work further.
What can you do about it?
Take the time to observe your thoughts and feelings.
Take the time to spot your limiting beliefs. And reset your beliefs to get into new experiences, more meaningful ones.
Take the time to master your emotions and thoughts while deciding how your life is going to be.
Take the time to recreate your identity.
What you build based on chemistry only is not solid for your growth, nor for the person involved.
Mixing chemistry with alchemy IS.
Join the VIP community to create your best year.
Talk soon,
Denisa
Make it the BEST month. Even better, make 2023 The BEST YEAR!
Winter holidays are almost here. Is that magical time of the year when we are more relaxed…
When we feel joyful, grateful, loving, and more giving.
That time of the year when you tap into your kindness, and self-love. When you’re more connected and present with yourself and others. When important beliefs and core values surface.
That time of the year when you honor all experiences and choose people who really matter to you.
Let’s make it the best month!
This magical state you’re in is going to help you speed up your desires and recreate your identity as you wish.
Let’s use this to your benefit! Mutual benefit, for yourself and the people you cherish. When you feel good, people around will feel it too.
And you can make this state last for the whole year. Make 2023 YOUR BEST YEAR!
If you want to use this state and multiply it, NOW is the perfect moment.
Join ME!
Become a member of a fresh VIP community where you’ll learn fast tools to get what you want.
I am going to offer you hands-on simple tools to manifest what you want. I like to keep it simple and make it happen fast. Get ready to be surprised by how effective this is.
Those that worked with me so far already know. 😉
You manifest every single minute of the day anyway, why complicate the process?
Learn to do it naturally, your way.
Set your mindset right.
Set high standards for your relationships.
Gain emotional & thoughts mastery
Set rules and boundaries.
Set healthy priorities and follow them.
Set yourself up for success!
Step into your greatness as an authentic feminine if you are a woman, and as an authentic masculine if you’re a man.
Are you in? Send me a message.
Thank you!
See you inside.
Denisa
Manifest a High-Value Relationship
You want to be seen by your partner
You want to be heard
You want to be understood
You want to be loved, cherished, desired, appreciated, supported, safe.
You want a love relationship that can feed your mind, body, and soul.
Who doesn’t want this type of relationship?
Though, just a few are willing to put in the work to get there.
And here you are, ending up in the wrong relationships most times, asking yourself:
Why do I attract what I don’t want in a relationship? Why do others find real love and I don’t?
Questions that lead to low confidence, feeling lonely, sad, angry… Which will only attract more of what you don’t want.
Forcing yourself to get into the ideal relationship you desire can cause a lot of emotional imbalance. Which can lead to making bad choices in regard to your partners, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and more.
What to do to be in a high-value relationship:
1 – You have to stop comparing yourself with others.
2 – Become more feminine if you are a woman, and more masculine if you are a man.
3 – Work on your confidence – this is going to be the sexiest outfit you’ll ever wear.
4 – Set rules and boundaries. Decide clearly what you want and what you don’t.
5 – Master your emotions and thoughts.
6 – Work on your triggers.
7 – Be yourself.
There must be a balance between masculine and feminine always to build healthy relationships.
And this requires self-growth.
It’s not enough to be successful to get your special partner. If you want the whole “package” you have to become it too.
So, instead of chasing partner no 555, have a break and take this time for yourself, to start a different journey, a more pleasant one.
Let me tell you a secret, you can get there fast.
Try this affirmation:
I can’t wait to experience the best relationship ever! I choose to experience the best relationship ever right now!
How would you describe a high-value relationship?
Talk soon,
Denisa
Shift Your Identity
Can you show up always as your true self?
Trading identity for approval is never a winning game.
Getting comfortable with yourself is.
You can gain clarity on your true identity, to be able to express it in any situation.
Especially when it comes to relationships.
Being comfortable with your true identity is going to reflect amazingly in all areas of your life.
If you accept where you are you’ll be able to decide WHERE you want to go.
And this is a journey.
A journey where your emotions are going to be challenged, your thoughts, your beliefs, your confidence. Your life overall.
This is how anxiety appears, stress, lack of self-esteem…
By denying your true identity.
Identity equals who you really are, what you really want, how you want to show up, what type of relationships you want, how you run your business, what rules and boundaries you apply, how you react to stress, how you react to love, to friendships. And so on.
Identity Equals how you carry yourself EVERY minute of the day.
If you’re ready to start your journey with me, join me.
I’ll meet you where you are and take it from there.
See you inside,
Denisa
Use Your Negative Emotions to Get What You Want
“The human mind is wired to focus on the negative”. How many times did you hear this? And it’s true to some point.
What’s the solution?
Here it is.
Stop watching the news, media, movies – wasting time in general WITH things that:
Don’t feed your soul
Don’t feed your mind
Don’t improve your skills
Let’s reformulate now.
The human mind IS capable to rewire!
Let me tell you something else.
You don’t have to be “aligned” to do it.
You don’t have to be positive always to do it!
You CAN work it through exactly as you are.
Forget about vision boards, drinking X glasses of water, meditating X times a day, staying positive all the time, or other “rituals” to get what you want.
You don’t need all of this, there is a simple way, more natural and easier to change beliefs and get what you want, or transform parts of your life, in any state.
I can even say that it’s working faster when using your negative state, emotions, that when you’re in the positive one.
At least this is how it worked for me many times. And this is something I tested many times without external info.
I don’t think you can find this info somewhere, to be honest. 😉
All you have to do is to master every state and use it to your favor while you let it unfold.
You can always choose one of my coaching services if you want to dive in and you’re ready for it on all levels.
See you inside,
Denisa
Are you spiritual?
People took spirituality to such a confusing level. The reason why so many scammers are leading others to even more confusion. Especially in the coaching niche. There is a lot of misleading information out there, meant to make you buy shiny packages with an empty value.
The reason why you start thinking that must be something wrong with you…
This is marketing manipulation only, where tactics and strategies are used to make you feel broken and stuck. And I have a solid background in the marketing field to recognize these strategies when I see them – which is one of the reasons why I’ve started this project where you can find real value.
Let me tell you this – there is nothing WRONG with you! As a human being is perfectly normal to go through different experiences, and stages, to have ups and downs.
Here you’ll find a post where I explain spiritual terms – my take on it: https://cutt.ly/HMqfQ8s
The greatest favor you can do for yourself is to start creating your own identity. To be able to do it all you need is… awareness. You are aware when you take a moment to breathe consciously and consider what is true for your journey and what is not.
Spirituality comes from the Latin spiritus, which means breath.
“You breathe, you are spiritual.
You are spiritual because you breathe.
End of story.”
Quote from The Journal of Human Emotions book.
Your own existence as a human makes you spiritual. With all that is.
You don’t need to “fix” yourself first in order to run a business or to go after what you want.
I believe the most unhappy people are multi-millionaires. Do you think this stops them from being successful? Of course not.
How does this work? What they want is greater than what they feel.
Which makes it possible to navigate through negative emotions to get a positive outcome.
You can use negative emotions as fuel to push forward, to get what you want, to be who you want. No need to get “stuck” until you figure it out or get a better understanding.
While moving forward create time to discover your identity. Who you are and who do you want to become? One of the most important questions is actually… Why?
Discovering your identity is an ongoing process that gets easier to navigate when you are certain about your “why”. Here is where you have to be honest with yourself and contemplate this question: Why do I want what I want?
And your “why” might eventually dismiss your initial “want”. This is when you create meaning in your life, when your “why” matches your “want” while feeling good about it on a personal level.
Do you have questions?
About Intuition
Have you ever talked to someone who, without a real reason, made you feel bad?
Or, have you experienced talking to someone for the first time and feeling good around them?
That is your intuition letting you know what is good for you or not. The same thing can happen when you have to take a decision – this applies to business or personal life.
Try to recall a bad decision you’ve made. How did you feel about it?
You knew it didn’t feel right, but you went for it anyway and the result wasn’t good. Isn’t it? Same thing with a good decision.
What about the above example, with people? The feeling. Good or bad, always came true, right?
You already know how to recognize your intuition, if conscious of it. Record those moments to apply them further. Confirmation always comes, regardless of your choice. Intuition is never wrong.
Intuition is there to lead you where you want always. Observe. Listen. Practice.
It’s ok to have a plan on how you want things to go, but be flexible about it and leave some room for better things to step in – if unpredictable situations interfere with your plan. Stay open to possibilities.
I realized that I always had a heightened intuition which helped me a lot (when I listened…) around people, in business, and in any other situation. Now, that I can recognize it faster, makes it even easier. I can tell in a very short time to what type of person I’m talking to, what are they going through, what would be a possible solution for them, and so on. Without having a face-to-face conversation. Which makes me very good at what I do and saves me a lot of time.
This is not magic, is becoming a conscious human being, aware of your senses, of your intuition, of your emotions and thoughts. Of your own presence.
All of us can do it! Start practicing.
Observe, don’t judge
Observation allows you to decide what to take in and what to leave out.
Who to keep close to you or not.
What habits to form or not.
What traits to embody or not.
What type of relationships you want or not.
What behavior to cultivate or not.
Judging people and situations is going to keep you in the loop of what you don’t want. Plus, is such a waste of energy and time…
Observe instead, to decide further what is nourishing your self-growth and what doesn’t.
Self-observation is a different game. There the change happens faster. Again, observe, don’t judge.
You can try to evaluate a conversation or a situation you had a few months ago, a year ago, maybe more… and ask yourself – how would I approach the same situation now? Usually, the answer is – completely different.
This is what self-growth looks like and how to recognize it. By observing.
Observation also allows you to balance emotions, to recognize them, to heal.
Talk soon,
Denisa
