For years I felt freedom was not mine to have… to experience. Literally. 

Shaped by others’ perceptions of me. And that became my reality.

Have you ever felt like a prisoner to external circumstances? This was me too. Until I decided to stop letting life happen to me and dictate my choices.

I invite you to explore my journey to self-mastery and self control.

Revealing my story

We all have our unique story, here is mine – this story led me to deep transformation inside out. Regaining full self control, and mastering myself.

All of those years I was in self-sabotage, which kept me in a repetitive negative cycle. I made a post yesterday about reactions (MMA for reaction) – if you understand early in the process of a challenge that you have the option to redo the way you react, everything else becomes clearer and more balanced, further on, this leads to better outcomes.

I didn’t apply it back then. I knew the theory of it but didn’t apply it. What happens when you don’t act on it?

What happened to me, and to many others – Fears and anxiety built up, which kept me in this loop.

In 2023 I decided I had to rebalance my life fully in all ways, that enough was enough. Reaching this moment of realization holds so much power! It moves you in the desired direction, according to your intention.

This moment was a game changer for me – this is when I started to regain the full self-control I had lost on the way. It didn’t have to be perfect, it just had to start.

And it did. I started doing emotional regulation, balancing my nervous system, keeping a mental diet, and becoming more aware of my actions and reactions. Physical and spiritual practices were also part of this process – regaining full self-control.

Fears don’t just disappear when you’re doing this inner work, but you have to keep doing it – despite it, using it as fuel! I kept having those fears too, but it didn’t stop me.

I want to mention that I also had some sessions with mentors I believed in. It helped a bit, bringing buried beliefs to my awareness. But the real transformation happened when I actively worked on dissolving what didn’t serve me anymore. Discovering my own methods to go about it, as not all available ones were doing the “job” for me. (some are revealed in my blueprint guide)

Writing was my peaceful escape, journaling, and it helped me a ton with the self-analysis process I was doing – I share details in the blueprint on how to do it. 

A short tip I can give you right now is to start writing down any thoughts you may have, even if they don’t make sense, write them down – it will give you clarity on what you need to correct, address, and act on.

This is how you manifest what you want into your life, how you make it happen, by becoming aware first – of what you think and feel, act and react.

During those years my creativity was high, I wrote many poems where I redefined meanings – some of them are available to the public. Which helped deepen my understanding. 

One example is the poem Calm Your Mind – which helped many people with their anxiety. Another one is the poem called Crazy (yzarc) where I redefine its meaning. And so on – there are other creations that will give you lots of food for thought.

Quote from the self control blueprint:

“We don’t close a negative cycle if we keep throwing negativity around. People act and react according to their own beliefs and understanding of life.

Expecting them to deeply understand you, in this situation, is a waste of time, and foolish, especially if you think differently and live life on your own terms – which they never have done.

Like I always did.”

I am sharing this part of my story in detail, especially the process I followed to gain full self-control in this Blueprint –  to show you that IS possible to do it regardless of how challenging a situation can get, WHILE in the midst of it.

I confess that my Son and my Faith were, still are, and always will be – my Biggest inspiration ever to level up, to become better and better with each day. To grow into the best version of myself on all levels possible. And I continuously learn from it.

Do you know the phrase – Love is all you need? So true! Love for yourself, love for the ones who truly deserve your time and energy. 

Love Is All You Need to Transform Deeply!

This blueprint is a complete system in the self-growth area. For those who can spot it, who are ready for it.  Also, a good read that will keep you hooked and inspired. 60 pages of pure value, not bits.

My journey, all of it, showed me that being imperfect is the real meaning of human perfection.

I own my story fully! With good and less good decisions I’ve made.

🫴 And I just got this insight, MMA for imperfect:

Imperfect = I’m perfect

It’s in the word itself!

This is your wake-up call to real transformation! Are you going to answer this time?

Would love to hear about Your transformational journey – let’s connect.

What is one step you’re Willing to take today toward transformation?

Drop it in the comments or message me, and let’s explore it more. I am here to guide you, and help you on your journey.

Thank you for your support,

D.🫶

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💎Ready to master self control? The self-control blueprint guide is available for purchase at $190. Trust your gut, if it’s a firm yes, message me.

the story goes beyond words