Self Control Series – Snippets from the blueprint guide
🧩 Self Control Series – Snippets from the blueprint guide 🧩
“Most challenging and transformative stories revolve around some relationship that has gone wrong, isn’t it? With your partner, or people close to you.
My story is no different.
Manipulation, betrayal, emotional turmoil, disappointment, depression, high anxiety, panic attacks, fears – chaos, almost losing myself… Lived it all.
Most of us experienced it, right? If not all, part of it.
So here I am, revealing this part of my story, from a place of balance, full self-control, and self-mastery.
*I reveal this story to you to show the realness of what we feel and think when we experience a challenge.
When it’s ours it matters, we feel it, we experience it – the same way we get to transform it to our benefit.
So we can live life with more ease and fewer limitations – to none.
We all feel the challenges when they happen, in different ways, but, because of societal norms and personal fears
– we choose not to talk about it.
Well, I am.
With this story I intend for you to get inspired and change parts of your life – it is possible!
Through my story and the methods I used to overcome all of it, you’ll get what you need to know to overcome yours!This guide is All you need to start your transformation.
This is the blueprint you’ve been searching for!”
“This is a story about gaining self-control and self-mastery WHILE surrounded by a toxic environment created by close people.
When you realize you don’t have solutions yet – you do have two options always:
You rise or you fall!
I chose to rise.”
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Relationships – Meaning, Messages, and Analysis (MMA) 🔥
Relationships – Meaning, Messages, and Analysis (MMA) 🔥
Hot topic, isn’t it? We all try to understand it in one way or another.
Let’s dive into a deeper meaning and analysis of this word – relationship.
When you pronounce it fast, it sounds like this:
Relay-shan-ship.
Relay Meanings:
In ancient context the meaning was
Continuity, teamwork, communication.
Symbolism – trust, collaboration, speed, and endurance.
In ancient Greece the relay races were part of religious festivals, symbolizing
Transmission of divine light, continuity, and purity of sacred traditions.
Armies used relay systems to coordinate battles, symbolizing
Teamwork, readiness, and organization.
Modern meanings of ‘Relay’
Connection, the passing of responsibility or energy, cooperation.
Examples:
In sports, relay races symbolize
Teamwork, unity, collaboration, trust, shared effort.
Relay towers – directly linked to communication.
Symbolizing bridging gaps, connection, information flow.
Olympic Torch Relay
Linked to global unity, representing
Ideals like friendship, excellence, and peace.
Relay vs Rely
Though linguistically they are two different words (relay= passing something along, rely = trust placed in a person or a system for continuity)
I find them connected.
Can you pass a responsibility to someone you don’t trust? No.
Therefore
Relay = Rely
In this context. They are linked.
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Shan Meanings:
In Chinese ‘Shan’ means mountain, symbolizing strength, stability, and connection to the divine.
In Persian ‘Shan’ implies prestige and dignity when used as part of names and royal titles.
In pop culture
Shan appears in fictional characters, films, and literature – linked to resilience or wisdom.
Modern slang
In informal British and Irish slang, Shan means something unfair, disappointing.
Shan meanings are rooted in
Strength, nobility, dignity, stability, elevation, and resilience.
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Ship meaning
Easy one. Linked to means of transportation. Travel, aka journey.
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Messages from the word ‘Relationship’:
1 – Unity is possible when you can rely on the other person (romantic partner, business, or sports collaboration).
2 – A relationship is built on communication, trust, dignity, teamwork, and collaboration.
3 – A relationship is the journey that leads to building resilience, strength, wisdom, nobility, and real connection through shared effort.
And a journey is not always smooth, isn’t it?
4 – When individuality and unity (togetherness) coexist, you feel elevated within the relationship.
Aka you grow, the relationship grows too.
As I like to say – in a relationship you must be together and separate, at the same time.
Same thing when it comes to businesses or collaborations. You make individual decisions, but you also need the team’s decisions – to thrive.
5 – To build a powerful relationship with a solid foundation (aka mountain traits), you must trust and allow divine energy (God) to flow, while you hold and build noble values for yourself and the other(s).
Otherwise, it becomes a disappointing or unfair relationship.
As you can see, the word itself explains the real meaning of a relationship.
Of any kind, personal or business. Cooperative relationships in general.
The more I dive into these analyses, the more I understand that – all we need is a deeper understanding to live a balanced and peaceful life.
It also tells me about the huge importance of practicing self-work.
Which is nothing but the journey to knowing ourselves better, deeper – to overcome and accept whatever is needed in an easier way.
When you truly understand yourself and what you want, you get to understand others too – and from here make better decisions.
This is the whole point of doing self-work.
How do you start?
You guessed it – by gaining Self Control overall.
How do you look at relationships now?
The Self Control Blueprint
Don’t buy this Blueprint if you are afraid to confront yourself.
Because this is the impact of this guide.
You’ll probably read this post, get inspired, and move on without action.
This is exactly why you keep running in circles.
This is the difference between those who succeed and create change in their life and those who just absorb the information – Action.
This Self Control Blueprint is not just another self-help fluff with fake positivity.
The guide contains a real-life story and a complete roadmap to transformation.
Self Control Series – My Story
Snippets from the guide:
Page 41
“People believe what matches their own perspective, and not always the truth.
This is why it is so, SO important to know and accept yourself fully and fiercely
– to get control over your own life story. The only way to filter what serves you and your destination, and what doesn’t.”
Page 27
“Only this time, I could clearly see the pattern and I changed the narrative completely.
And this was me stepping into Full self-control this time. The best thing ever!
It’s important to become aware of the situation that is holding you back, to be able to change the narrative.”
Page 20
“A truth that shakes someone’s foundation and beliefs, especially if it challenges their identity – can be easily perceived as a threat, or offensive, when in reality is not.”
Page 14
“In that moment I served him the truth I was also holding back.
And told him (…)”
Page 19
“And I looked at everybody.
The bodyguard was an old man, his look was like he wanted to speak up for me but he couldn’t, he was helpless.
That’s when I knew and said to myself (…)”
Some mantras (affirmations) I used during these years:
“1- I can handle this, like I always did, no matter what happens I get back up. (…) I (…), I just know I am going to solve this too.
7™ – It’s dang difficult to experience this situation. (…).
9™ – (…) I get to choose what my next (…).”
This guide will:
✔️Force you to confront your inner challenges and what’s been holding you back.
✔️Break your illusions.
✔️Expose your habits.
✔️Give you the map to gaining self-control – to start transforming your life.
If you’ve had enough and crave change, grab this guide.
But if you need someone to convince you, you’re not ready.
A Message to WOMEN
A Message for Women
- Love yourself more.
- Activate that confidence.
- Become aware of your beauty.
- Stay kind.
- Do the inner work.
- Stop chasing men.
- Value a man’s emotional maturity and intelligence, core values, and Not his status.
- Release what doesn’t serve you on all levels.
- Discover and rediscover Who you are or who you want to be.
- Stop chasing money.
- Balance your feminine energy inside out.
- Keep your grace in every situation.
- Cherish privacy.
- Respect yourself first if you want to be respected.
- Lean into your intuition.
- Keep an open mind always.
- Keep learning.
- Other women are not your enemy.
- Stop competing.
- Aim to achieve self-control and self mastery.
- Learn when to talk and when to listen.
- Keep note of your reactions and improve.
- Become more aware.
- Seek inner peace and inner balance.
- Be mindful of your everyday habits.
- Practice self-care.
- Be sexy and not vulgar.
- Cherish your loved ones.
- Know when to remove yourself from a situation.
- Less is more in every aspect.
- Have healthy boundaries in place.
- Fight for your dreams.
- Do business with integrity if you choose so.
- Lead through inspiration.
- Be more feminine.
- Be a Femina. (woman in Latin)
- Be who you want to be at a core level.
- Stop searching for validation from the wrong people.
- Aim for real value and connection.
- Be authentic.
- Cultivate a strong mindset.
- Learn to emotionally regulate.
- Keep your spirit high.
- Honor your personal growth.
- Be patient.
- You got this!
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