What are Self Control Series? What about the upcoming guide?
What are Self Control Series? What about the upcoming guide?
– Self Control Series – My story –
They are snippets from the Monster Guide that will be released soon. (30+ pages so far)
Within this series, I share parts of my story and lessons learned.
It is about the story that led me to have full self-control, and eventually self-mastery.
– Self Control Guide –
Within this Powerful Guide I share:
1 – Full story and what I did to overcome it, step by step.
2 – Not just the lessons, but the Methods too.
3 – Emotional regulation tips and tricks.
4 – Mindset tips and tricks.
5 – Manifestation tips and tricks.
6 – How to overcome stressful situations.
7 – Confidence tips and tricks.
8 – Real-life story and what it means to live it – But Mostly, how you can Transform all of it.
9 – My Years of research, and trial & error. Which led me to – discover personal and Unique methods to transform a challenge.
This Guide IS a blend of all you can think of in the self-growth zone + good storytelling.
Is going to be the Only thing you’ll need to start transforming whatever you want in your life!
That being said,
Keep following my series, and other posts.
Share what you resonate with – let’s support each other.
Good manipulation in action 😄
Good manipulation in action 😄
Yesterday I took full advantage of its importance.
Here in Romania, it was also Mother’s Day, not just Women’s Day.
Anyway, I told my son – I am taking the day for myself (lol). And that I want to spend 1h with him.
*He likes it when I am taking days for myself, he gets to do what he wants as well.
I also said – that he is not allowed to say no, and he must do what I ask him to.
His expression was like… “it is what it is”. Hahaha
I told him I didn’t want to spend his money on gifts, but I wanted something special, made by him – that would express what I meant to him. Writing or drawing, whatever he wanted. (teaching him to express what he feels)
I also invited him to have a little talk (here is where good manipulation took place…).
Something we don’t do as often as I wish, ’cause he’s a ‘busy guy’ – kids.
Full advantage on.
We talked about respect, appreciation, and about how important it is to express what we feel, to show it. That is normal and natural to do it.
Not only on special days but on any other day. (as he was calculating months left until my birthday lol)
I took it further, in the girls’ zone.
Explaining that he needs to apply it with every girl from his circle (respect and appreciation).
Especially with his future girlfriends.
Here I talked about what he will experience when he will like a girl – body sensations, emotions…
The beauty of it – but pushed it more in the self control zone, to respect boundaries, to interpret reactions.
Gave him a few examples, and made it fun.
It was a light conversation, and he was all smiles – something like “I heard something on TikTok” type of expression lol.
(‘Cause 11+ kid, heading to puberty fast.)
We have had these girls’ conversations since he was very young, 3 I guess.
Now, we took it to the next level. Preparing him for what’s coming.
It’s working. He is amazing with girls!
I remember a nice moment… he was around 8 years old when he had his first official girlfriend.
We were in the park, she arrived later on.
He came to me to ask for some money.
I asked what he needed for – he told me he wanted to do something, and that he will tell me later.
I executed his wish lol
Moments later, he was next to his girlfriend holding a red rose…
That was such a precious moment, he was so shy but there doing it.
Not sure if I got a photo of that moment – I will search for it.
Other kids, myself, parents… we were in awe! It was a beautiful, surprising moment…
(this had a ripple effect on other girls from his group, making him an example 😉)
Back to yesterday
*All of that discussion made me realize the low percentage of men, adult men, having these values towards women in their lives.
Education in this direction starts at a young age.
Or, if you didn’t get the chance, later on.
You can learn it anytime and apply it.
After our little talk, he went straight to his desk, excited, and created this drawing for me – see the picture.
A few moments later, after hugs and kisses, we got out.
Minding our things separately.
Something I also taught him since young – detachment from me.
When he gets out the door he doesn’t need me. (maybe some money and that’s it lool)
Overall, it was a great day! 🌟
What do you teach your kid(s) as a conscious parent?
Leadership talk, analysis & meaning
Leadership talk, analysis & meaning
What does leadership means to you?
My take
Leadership doesn’t always mean to lead your business and staff.
It also means
being in charge (leading) your journey, your life.
You are in charge of your journey.
(And this doesn’t necessarily require owning a business.)
It goes both ways
Personal & Business
Personal OR Business
An individual can be a leader of their life without owning a business. (family, kids…)
A business owner can’t be a good leader without being an individual one (leader) first.
Now, apply it… to your self discovery.
Analysis & Meaning
The meaning is in the pronunciation.
Accent on lead, clear ‘R’ in US
Leadership – Lead the ship – Lead your ship.
E *from middle ER* = energy – symbol in physics
Where ship = your life, your journey, your biz
Clear R – UR slang = Your or You’re
Aka the message:
Lead yourself – You’re in charge of your journey. You have the power within. (related to E symbol)
Own it, understand it, and make the best out of it!
Further message for business owners:
Lead yourself first to be able to lead communities. (Clear link to personal development…)
How do you lead yourself? – by gaining self control overall.
Now, I will address the question from the beginning, again:
What does leadership mean to you?
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Money Meaning and Analysis – Money Mindset
Money Meaning and Analysis – Money Mindset
Money has different meanings for each of us, we perceive it differently – therefore we act differently about it.
Some say it doesn’t bring happiness. What happens further? When they have it they are not happy – belief confirmed.
Others say it’s so easy to make money – What happens further? They make money with ease – belief confirmed again.
A strong belief leads to action and, therefore results.
Let’s discover the hidden messages from the word ‘Money’ – it will give you a deeper understanding.
– Analysis –
When you pronounce it sounds like this – “Ma-nii”
Easy accent on ‘ii’ – translates to “I”.
The message here:
- Focus on you!
‘MA’ meanings:
Mandarin Chinese = mother
Reflecting familial respect and affection, care.
Japanese = the concept of space or gap
Emphasizes the importance of pauses in art, music, and architecture
Sanskrit = to measure (aka balance)
Hinduism = denotes negation, in ‘Maya’ means illusion
Egyptian mythology ‘Ma’at’ = goddess of truth, balance, and cosmic order
Physics Ma = 1 million years
Academic degree = Master of Arts
Martial Arts abbreviation MA = implies discipline
📩 MESSAGES:
1 – Share towards communities your skills with care & respect.
2 – Is important to have breaks, to pause from work.
3 – Don’t make it more than what it is. Money is not the ultimate reality.
4 – We create illusions through our assumptions (beliefs) – we can also see beyond perceptions.
Example – You may think that if you don’t succeed you will not be worthy enough, appreciated enough.
When you refuse this assumption, and replace it (you keep moving forward), it will lead to self-acceptance of what is possible for you.
5 – Communicate your truth with balance between physical and spiritual self.
Which leads again to – not making it more than it is (or creating an illusion about your abilities – creating limitations).
6 – Do everything with discipline – which goes back to having balance.
7 – Meaning of 1 million years ago in this context – specifies the importance of being confident that you can learn a new skill, even if it’s not discovered yet. Aka trust yourself! (see the full post about it)
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- Nii meanings –
Ancient Indian languages
Sanskrit = leading, guiding
Prakrit (from Niti) = morality
Ghana language = great or big
Signifies strength, leadership, and prominence within the community.
Chinese ancient culture
Ni = secondary rainbow resulting from double reflection of sunlight, symbolizing – transformation and fluidity between realms
Religious symbolism, Christian abbreviation ‘IC XC NI KA’ = Jesus Christ conquers – representing victory of Jesus
Chemical symbol Nickel (Ni) = a transition metal known for its corrosion resistance (resistance to degradation process)
📩 MESSAGES:
1 – Lead with morality to create something meaningful (or big)
2 – Guide communities through strength (aka Know your expertise Well!) to reach transformation and create the transition.
3 – Transformation and ease is within realms – meaning
Create transformation with ease (flow) within different domains thrusting both the human world (physical) & the divine world (God,Universe…)
This is the transition that leads to Balance – to money balance.
4 – Your success (aka victory) depends on you fully.
On the ability to break limitations (mental and emotional), on your ability to learn new skills, to become one of the best in what you do, to build communities, on your integrity when practicing a chosen skill, and on your faith.
On your continuous work towards success in both ways – physical and spiritual.
And this leads to message no 3 – about creating transformation with ease.
– Final Conclusion –
To do your best, in any chosen domain, you have to keep your thoughts and emotions in check, and transform them, to make them work for you – emotional and mental regulation (thoughts) lead towards efficient actions that bring results (in this case money). To improve your skills and connect with people. To build your confidence while doing so.
This is all about… gaining Self Control overall!
*I liked the message 1 from ‘Ni’ – beautifully compliments what I often say:
Do business with integrity!
There you have it – the word itself explains with such detail the meaning of money.
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Self Control Series – My Story. Detachment
Self Control Series – My Story
This part is about the importance of detaching when things are not in your power to solve, yet. To allow things to unfold knowing that you’ll find a good solution in the end – regardless of external situations, your job is to keep doing you, to keep working on yourself. This is how the solutions you seek show up, eventually.
Story time: 📖
≈ I am usually a calm person, I prefer this state, but sometimes even calm people get angry – and when it happens there is always a good reason behind it, like this situation.
There are moments when you have to speak up for yourself – I felt that was one of those moments.
He did admit that I always have good clarity in speaking and that I am logical and coherent, a smart woman, and also that because of that, it was tricky for him to diagnose me.
My answer to that was:
– “Thanks. Shouldn’t this tell you that I am actually fine? Have you considered you being wrong about me?”
His conclusion:
– “Well, the treatment is working well, you are much better.”
In that moment I served him the truth I was also holding back.
And told him:
– “What treatment? I never took any! I threw it all away and told everybody I took it to leave me alone. What do you have to say about that?
Am I ok because of the treatment? Well no, I am ok Because I always was.
You can prescribe whatever you want, I can respect that you have to do your job, but I refuse it. It is my right to refuse it, isn’t it? So I am.”
This moment taught me that an “experienced” doctor will never admit to being wrong about a patient, regardless of how obvious it might be.
The only thing you can do is to keep focusing on yourself to remove challenges and gain full self-control over situations that are up to you to solve – also, to detach with faith that all will fall into place, in your favor.
Having this mindset helped me stay focused on the self-work I was doing.≈
My perspective and analysis on Love!
Let’s talk about love and its meaning. My take as always.
If you followed my last posts, you know about my curiosity and interest in ‘decoding’ hidden messages from words.
Messages that many of us came across, and heard about.
This word – love – is fascinating how powerful its meaning is.
* Side note – this might not be for everyone, but I invite your perspective. My observations and messages are based on logic and metaphysics (human body and emotions, spirituality, numerology, geometry, sacred geometry, some chemistry, some science…).
Understanding this approach will also emphasize the importance of gaining self-control over emotions especially.
Now you know what’s coming so keep reading.
A final message I got from my analysis is:
“We have to experience ALL emotions to reach Harmony.”
(For those interested in numerology, like I am, the message was written at 11:11.)
Love is more than an emotion – it connects the full range of emotions, beliefs, influencing decisions, perceptions, and behaviors.
I consider it to be the Primary Emotion – the main emotion. (personal opinion)
When you experience love, you also experience secondary emotions – they get activated ( like: admiration, joy, gratitude, hope, excitement, etc. but also, on the other side of “love” are fear, anxiety, guilt, regret, envy, shame, frustration, etc. – the negative side of things happen as a result of lack of love or simply a misunderstanding of it)
It will make sense in a minute.
✨ Here is my process and how I extracted all messages from this word. (welcome to my world lol)
When you pronounce it, love becomes – Loov. The accent is on ‘O’ – so we have OO. (looks like eyes isn’t it?) 👀
L – forms a 90° angle inside
L – in numerology is associated with no 3 – which means Guidance, Communication, Expression.
L – In Celtic symbolism, the letter L is linked to the Oak Tree – associated with Strenght, Endurance, and Stability.
L – in Hebrew, this letter is directly associated with the concept of Guidance.
OO – infinite circles from Mayan symbolism of 0; Vision. Focused vision.
O₂ – Oxygen symbol in chemistry (we have 2 O’s in the pronunciation) – a direct association with Breathing.
2 here also means duality, masculine and feminine. In & out. (like breathe)
V – forms a 40° angle
V – ancient and modern victory symbol ✌️
V – hand gestures, mudras – it means energy flow
V – in sacred geometry is linked to key Patterns that Shape the Universe – symbolizing Creation, Balance, Transformation.
Examples:
Birds fly in a V shape.
Human body
– clavicles form a V shape at the base of the neck
– the heart’s lower half – V shape
– the jawline naturally forms a V-structure
Another example
V-shaped roofs to manage rain and snow
Arms raised in victory (V shape) – a natural reaction when winning.
ETC.
🌟 90° angle (right angle) meanings
Used for Stability and Function – aka Harmony
Ex: – Buildings, doors, walls – rely on right angles ( 90°).
In spirituality, a 90° shift means a radical change in direction.
Military salute – forms a 90° angle.
90° angle IS a fundamental force in the Universe!
Stay with me… let’s continue.
When you think of balance as stability (which is), this leads to harmony.
Having balance, stability ( and clarity) – means having Harmony.
🌟 40° angle meanings
Associated with Balance & Harmony in Chinese Culture
Sacred geometry – 40 represents a moment of transition (an uncomfortable but necessary phase that leads to transformation).
Ex:
If you lean forward too much, your spine will form a 40° angle (a bad posture), which will hurt over time if not corrected.
This means that the 40° angle represents a Challenge – that can be corrected, transformed.
Let’s address the last letter from love – E. (Silent E – you don’t pronounce it)
*E = energy (symbol for energy in science)
Easily associated with energy from spirituality. Cosmic energy, universal energy.
(within E you can also observe 90° angles)
E∞ – energy is infinite = it can only be transformed from one form to another.
A side note
The heart’s electromagnetic field is 5000 times greater than the brain’s electromagnetic field.
This fact is backed by science.
HeartMath Institute provides evidence.
We often say we feel emotions, especially love, in our hearts, right? It is perceived there first, but we actually experience it throughout the whole body. I believe the heart is the transmitter of all emotions throughout the whole body because of its electromagnetic field. (?)
Let’s extract the first messages from this word:
- Focus on breathing while feeling emotions. (This is also what keeps you grounded during experiences.) – OO
- You receive guidance and strength to express yourself fully while transforming. (L)
- Regardless of the challenges you experience, you can reach balance and win it through the same experience. (aka Harmony) – V
Filtered messages:
1* Stay grounded while you receive guidance to express yourself fully, regardless of the challenges you experience, you can always reach harmony. Inside-out.
2* You can see it (the change) because you feel it – Through emotions.
E-motion = energy in motion.
3* If you experience love you can experience harmony, balance – inside out!
4* You experience an Infinite loop of emotions. (E∞)
5* We have to experience ALL emotions to reach Harmony, to feel real Love.
My conclusions:
1 – You have different experiences as you move through life, that you can transform back into harmony if you allow the infinite loop of emotions to happen – until you get to balance them and be in control of its transformation.
2 – Emotions are the Silent Leader to transformation and non-transformation.
3 – Energy is also a Silent Leader – it moves through human feelings (emotions).
4 – Love, in any form, awakens all human emotions.
How do you manage this human cycle harmoniously? Your emotions?
Two Words:
Self. Control.
The formula I created for Love is this one:
LO₂V = E∞
Short translation:
“Accept the guidance within and work with it. Breathing keeps you grounded and, therefore present.
You can reach harmony. You get Infinite energy through emotions.”
One last thought about it.
I often say that thoughts and emotions are interconnected. Facts.
One sends signals to the other.
The heart sends signals to the brain, and vice versa.
Therefore, emotions send signals to your thoughts, and vice versa.
Infinite loop.
The end! ✌️
This one will blow your mind! Family Meaning Decoded
This one will blow your mind!
Share your thoughts about it – would love to know. I welcome your perspective. (for interaction see social media)
We gonna make it relaxing (Sunday vibes), so today’s word is – Family.
Let’s decode the meaning and the hidden messages from the word ‘Family’.
Here are some powerful messages about it – and how I got to it.
Let’s start. Fa-mi-ly.
Fa
RO slang – she
EN abbreviation from father
Italian fare – he/she/it does, makes
Musical note
Mi
Japanese – oneself, body, beauty
Hungarian – we
Turkish – (me?) Are you happy?
Other languages – me, I
Another musical note
Ly
Swedish/Norwegian/Danish – protection, shelter
Vietnamese – reason, logic
Greek – release
Russian and Slavic languages – do you know?
🌐Here are the messages:
1 – “Father made humans beautiful”
(oneself).
2 – “Protection and shelter are within family.”
3 – “We find release within family.”
4 – “She keeps family shining and standing.” – (from Japanese mi -‘body’- which is designed to stay upright, and Romanian ‘fa’)
5 – “Are you happy with your family?”
My conclusions of the word family and its meaning?
(Given the musical notes in it – which are auditory…)
“Listen to the meaning of Family!”
“Do you know and understand how important family is?”
*Father in the first message means God, Universe, Source, etc.
*She from the 4th message refers to Woman (read my post about women…)
Let me give you some more food for thought.
Family can also be your friends, people you care about, people you keep close.
And I will leave it here.
Does this make sense? 🙂
Why understanding the meaning behind words matters
When it comes to the journey to self, to discover who you are and what you can do to live life with ease…
You need to get a better understanding of all that is.
It’s a lot of info to unpack in this direction – to get the full picture follow the posts I create.
It is all about self control, mindset, and awareness – understanding your journey better.
Words hold meaning and hidden messages – which will help you get a different perspective next time you use them. (After you get the message within some words.)
I will deliver some of them.
It is similar to anchoring in NLP (neuro-linguistic programming).
When you assign a powerful meaning to words, they will hit differently – and help you move forward toward your dreams and goals.
And those meanings, those messages can be decoded.
Those meanings are contained within words – right in front of us.
“Words can save lives. Simple words can save lives!”
Stay tuned and follow my work further!
Why I’m doing this – and why you’ll want to be part of it
Why I’m doing this – and why you’ll want to be part of it
This project (and especially the series I started on Sunday) Will Challenge Everything You Thought You Knew.
Read this post fully to understand my work better.
If you just landed here, welcome aboard – Get ready to shift your beliefs!
All the others, keep on following.
I am here to help people get a deeper and more grounded understanding of themselves and life in general.
To make You Realise the importance of gaining full Self Control over thoughts, emotions, actions, and reactions.
But also to know when to let go – equally important.
To make You understand how important it is to Accept yourself fully, with all that is, to know yourself better – which will help you handle Much easier personal challenges and eventually overcome them.
And this applies to personal life and business.
My work is
Authentic. Simple. Effective. Creative.
The reason why my success rate is at 100% so far.
As a creative and effective example – I have an anxiety relief poem called Calm Your Mind on my youtube channel – it has helped over 1000 people so far with their anxiety and stress levels.
A Free resource! Among many others.
We live in challenging times, and All of us have experienced, at some point, challenging moments. Including myself!
Some still do.
It’s called life!
It also means experiencing the Whole Range of Human Emotions – which is ok and normal.
I am here to tell you that regardless of what you’re going through, Everything has a solution.
As long as you Decide to stop it, You Can completely and permanently Change the narrative of your story.
And make things work in your favor.
From a place of
Balance. Clarity. Focus. Self Control.
Which leads me to my next important point.
I decided to share part 2 of my personal story – which led to my present knowledge, full self control, and self mastery I am so blessed to have.
(part 1 of my story was published, in a vulnerable and inspiring way, in 2020 on Amazon in the ebook – The Journal of Human Emotions)
And I am sharing it through the series I started posting.
This series is about the challenging journey that led me to gain self control overall.
*About Mental Health & Emotional Regulation
But most importantly about
The inspiring part of it
The methods I used to overcome it
The lessons I’ve learned
The above is part of my intention of sharing my story, and I want you to stay Focused on this part, as it will help you a ton!
It took me years to overcome those challenges. Also to find the courage to speak about it.
I wanted to be sure I am sharing this story from a place of full self control, from an inspiring place, with no resentment attached.
So, I took my time to be 1000% sure about my approach. (overthinker here 👋)
Now is the right moment to do it – my way.
I also intend to create a Positive Movement in this direction, to help more and more people.
I will tell you this – it’s going to be triggering, but also inspiring and fun. 🙂
Right now, I am working on a comprehensive guide to gaining Self Control – as many of you asked for it.
* Will be available soon at an affordable price.
If money is an issue, at the moment, and you can’t afford private sessions with me yet, or other paid offers I have, dive into the free resources I offer, including my daily posts – it will help you move the needle!
(though I have people messaging me with gratitude that my free work completely changed their lives…)
*For all the others – my service fees start at $80 per 1 email and go up to 1.9k per month within the program Human Upgrade 2.0.
HU 2.0 it’s the most potent program I have available for you – where you get daily guidance from me to transform what you want or need to transform in your life.
And I have different variations in between these prices. More info on my website.
That being said
On another note…
…If you imagine that I have a magical wand 🪄 that will make things happen for you out of the blue, without effort on your side
Think twice!
I don’t. I’m only human (just like you) – like a popular song said.
You have to put in the work.
I will give you the necessary tools and Full guidance, but – it is Up To You to Do it!
This is why it’s called Self-Growth – you do it yourself. The end.
Otherwise it won’t work.
So let’s not waste our time with this.
Now that we got this part out of the way
*Keep an eye on this self control series!
If you want or wish to support my work – share any post that resonates with you. You never know who you may help.
🧠 Remember
Vulnerability is NOT weakness.
Is a freaking Super Power!
If you accept it.
Is part of Your Human Journey – All of it is.
Borrow this mindset.
Message me if you have questions or want more details about this project.
Stay tuned!
Thank You. 🙏
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PS: I wanted to make this post shorter… just not possible for me lool
I have sooo much to say – and I haven’t even scratched the surface.

Meaningful Moments