Why I’m doing this – and why you’ll want to be part of it
Why I’m doing this – and why you’ll want to be part of it
This project (and especially the series I started on Sunday) Will Challenge Everything You Thought You Knew.
Read this post fully to understand my work better.
If you just landed here, welcome aboard – Get ready to shift your beliefs!
All the others, keep on following.
I am here to help people get a deeper and more grounded understanding of themselves and life in general.
To make You Realise the importance of gaining full Self Control over thoughts, emotions, actions, and reactions.
But also to know when to let go – equally important.
To make You understand how important it is to Accept yourself fully, with all that is, to know yourself better – which will help you handle Much easier personal challenges and eventually overcome them.
And this applies to personal life and business.
My work is
Authentic. Simple. Effective. Creative.
The reason why my success rate is at 100% so far.
As a creative and effective example – I have an anxiety relief poem called Calm Your Mind on my youtube channel – it has helped over 1000 people so far with their anxiety and stress levels.
A Free resource! Among many others.
We live in challenging times, and All of us have experienced, at some point, challenging moments. Including myself!
Some still do.
It’s called life!
It also means experiencing the Whole Range of Human Emotions – which is ok and normal.
I am here to tell you that regardless of what you’re going through, Everything has a solution.
As long as you Decide to stop it, You Can completely and permanently Change the narrative of your story.
And make things work in your favor.
From a place of
Balance. Clarity. Focus. Self Control.
Which leads me to my next important point.
I decided to share part 2 of my personal story – which led to my present knowledge, full self control, and self mastery I am so blessed to have.
(part 1 of my story was published, in a vulnerable and inspiring way, in 2020 on Amazon in the ebook – The Journal of Human Emotions)
And I am sharing it through the series I started posting.
This series is about the challenging journey that led me to gain self control overall.
*About Mental Health & Emotional Regulation
But most importantly about
The inspiring part of it
The methods I used to overcome it
The lessons I’ve learned
The above is part of my intention of sharing my story, and I want you to stay Focused on this part, as it will help you a ton!
It took me years to overcome those challenges. Also to find the courage to speak about it.
I wanted to be sure I am sharing this story from a place of full self control, from an inspiring place, with no resentment attached.
So, I took my time to be 1000% sure about my approach. (overthinker here 👋)
Now is the right moment to do it – my way.
I also intend to create a Positive Movement in this direction, to help more and more people.
I will tell you this – it’s going to be triggering, but also inspiring and fun. 🙂
Right now, I am working on a comprehensive guide to gaining Self Control – as many of you asked for it.
* Will be available soon at an affordable price.
If money is an issue, at the moment, and you can’t afford private sessions with me yet, or other paid offers I have, dive into the free resources I offer, including my daily posts – it will help you move the needle!
(though I have people messaging me with gratitude that my free work completely changed their lives…)
*For all the others – my service fees start at $80 per 1 email and go up to 1.9k per month within the program Human Upgrade 2.0.
HU 2.0 it’s the most potent program I have available for you – where you get daily guidance from me to transform what you want or need to transform in your life.
And I have different variations in between these prices. More info on my website.
That being said
On another note…
…If you imagine that I have a magical wand 🪄 that will make things happen for you out of the blue, without effort on your side
Think twice!
I don’t. I’m only human (just like you) – like a popular song said.
You have to put in the work.
I will give you the necessary tools and Full guidance, but – it is Up To You to Do it!
This is why it’s called Self-Growth – you do it yourself. The end.
Otherwise it won’t work.
So let’s not waste our time with this.
Now that we got this part out of the way
*Keep an eye on this self control series!
If you want or wish to support my work – share any post that resonates with you. You never know who you may help.
🧠 Remember
Vulnerability is NOT weakness.
Is a freaking Super Power!
If you accept it.
Is part of Your Human Journey – All of it is.
Borrow this mindset.
Message me if you have questions or want more details about this project.
Stay tuned!
Thank You. 🙏
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PS: I wanted to make this post shorter… just not possible for me lool
I have sooo much to say – and I haven’t even scratched the surface.
Meaningful Moments
Why I started as a coach. Story time.
Some of you asked what inspired me to become a coach.
Here is my answer.
Guiding people, giving them aha moments and solutions, changing their perspective, and changing their overall life for the better – is something I have done ever since I was a teenager.
It comes naturally to me and I love doing it.
As the years went by, and going through my own challenges and life experiences – I significantly improved my skills.
To the point where I gained self-control over my thoughts, emotions, actions, and reactions. Which led to self-mastery.
Think of self-control as if it’s a button, that you can switch on/off whenever is needed.
Thinking back to when I had my first “coaching session”…
I was 15 years old. My parents used to fight a lot, until one day when I saw them fighting again. They were in the kitchen. I walked in there, calm, and separated them.
While I hopped on the kitchen counter, one was sitting at the table, the other one at the window (I was in the middle). And started to ask them questions about their marriage.
When I saw they kept contradicting every thing the other one said, I asked them a final question:
– Why don’t you divorce? It seems a good solution for you.
They were shocked.
That was the moment when complete silence settled down. It was out of the question!
From that moment, all was peaceful. For a short period, until they got back to old habits.
Changing a bad habit takes practice, and through practice it becomes a lifestyle, your identity.
You can’t say:
– Well, I’ve tried 1-2 times, it doesn’t work for me!
To create that bad habit you took plenty of time, and lots of practice to make it part of your life. Years upon years.
You might not break it in just a week or maybe a month.
Depending on where you’re at, it will take time to change and replace a bad habit.
And this is different for each of you.
And by bad habit I mean – negative thinking, overreacting, overthinking, not knowing how to regulate emotions or thoughts, impulsiveness, not being able to control reactions, lack of awareness, not being able to focus, etc.
In 2020 I’ve decided to come forward and create a business out of my passion. Which I did.
Since then, I have been helping people worldwide with an incredible success rate.
People come to me when they need to overcome a stressful situation, improve relationships, become more confident, get a business consultation, get mindset mastery.
People come to me when they want a different life, when they get tired of running in circles.
In short, people come to me to gain self-control, mindset mastery, self-mastery.
Why do my shortcuts work?
They are created during real-life and business challenges.
I am authentic.
I don’t like wasting anyone’s time or money.
Remember this rule always:
Personal or/and Business Success is built through mindset mastery!
90 % mindset – 10% action.
If you are ready to join me, here is how you can do it:Email consulting
Call consulting
Exclusive community
Human Upgrade 2.0 (HU 2.0) program
HU 2.0 program is the most potent one.
Within this program you get my daily support to reach your destination.
You also have the option to join for a week only, or more, up to 3+ months.
What clients say about my work:
“Was very stress releasing.”
“My perception has certainly shifted, but this method has allowed me to release.”
“I am happy to participate in your program.”
“Only want to continue to embark in all that you are teaching me. It’s really helpful.”
“You are the best!!”
More info and success stories here on my website.
You can message me if you have questions.
Are you in?
A Message to WOMEN
A Message for Women
- Love yourself more.
- Activate that confidence.
- Become aware of your beauty.
- Stay kind.
- Do the inner work.
- Stop chasing men.
- Value a man’s emotional maturity and intelligence, core values, and Not his status.
- Release what doesn’t serve you on all levels.
- Discover and rediscover Who you are or who you want to be.
- Stop chasing money.
- Balance your feminine energy inside out.
- Keep your grace in every situation.
- Cherish privacy.
- Respect yourself first if you want to be respected.
- Lean into your intuition.
- Keep an open mind always.
- Keep learning.
- Other women are not your enemy.
- Stop competing.
- Aim to achieve self-control and self mastery.
- Learn when to talk and when to listen.
- Keep note of your reactions and improve.
- Become more aware.
- Seek inner peace and inner balance.
- Be mindful of your everyday habits.
- Practice self-care.
- Be sexy and not vulgar.
- Cherish your loved ones.
- Know when to remove yourself from a situation.
- Less is more in every aspect.
- Have healthy boundaries in place.
- Fight for your dreams.
- Do business with integrity if you choose so.
- Lead through inspiration.
- Be more feminine.
- Be a Femina. (woman in Latin)
- Be who you want to be at a core level.
- Stop searching for validation from the wrong people.
- Aim for real value and connection.
- Be authentic.
- Cultivate a strong mindset.
- Learn to emotionally regulate.
- Keep your spirit high.
- Honor your personal growth.
- Be patient.
- You got this!
Join an exclusive community to learn more.
Step into a space designed for growth and transformation.
Spirituality Perspective
Spirituality Perspective
In Latin Spiritus means Breath.
This is the meaning of spirit, it’s your soul, which is alive through daily breathing.
You are alive on this Earth because you breathe.
Facts, right?
Spirit, spirituality, Is Not something outside of you, but IN YOU.
Saying that spirituality is not real is saying that you are not real.
Affirming that your spirit doesn’t exist is the same as declaring that… you don’t breathe.
The way spirituality (spirit, spiritus, soul) is perceived and understood doesn’t always make sense, let’s just say that some people… complicated this process.
And it shouldn’t be complicated, or too woo-woo, as others say.
It’s actually simple.
All you have to do is to at least be curious about what you want, from your heart and not your mind, and actually listen.
After that convince yourself you can do it.
Which means forming new beliefs around it.
And this important part of the process is a bit tricky sometimes.
Here is where spiritual teachers appeared with all types of methods to get this step accomplished – Forming new beliefs.
Different ways of meditating, poses, and rituals of all kinds.
Don’t get me wrong, for some this works – kudos to you.
I will continue by saying that I’ve tested many of them, of these methods and rituals.
Which made me think
There must be an easier way, a simple one, that makes sense to my logical mind.
And I’ve started to test it out. Multiple times in different ways.
This allows me to tell you now that things are simple and not as complicated as they seem in other people’s eyes.
It’s all about perspective and in fact, about the meaning you give to every word, number, person, and situation.
How you get there is fully your choice, if you need multiple daily rituals to get there and it works, all good.
The finish line is the same – reprogramming your mind, implementing new beliefs – regardless of how you get there.
It’s just a conscious choice.
I like to simplify things, so I did.
To start this journey, knowing yourself (spiritus)
You’ll need self control.
Discipline.
Practice.
I want you to think of self control as if it’s a Button that you can switch ON and OFF as you need it when you need it.
Part of having self control is knowing when to switch it off too.
In the picture below I made a simple visual representation of self control steps.
Share your thoughts.
If you want to start your journey with me join the program Human Upgrade 2.0 (for a week, a month, or more – your choice).
Email coaching is still available too.
🌟 PS: 🌟
Some of you will get inspired Only, by this type of content…
Others will get inspired BUT will also take action and start practicing.
And this is what makes the difference between people that can change something in their life, and those who can’t.
(Yeah, blame the cat 😼)
Have a good one!
D.
